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The Double
The Invisible faithful companion, the shadow of each individual hidden

If you could ask each person whether or not evolved as the most worrying problem for the actual difficulties solve it, the vast majority would answer: interpersonal relationships at all levels, emotional, family, work and social life. What
may be the cause?
The "double" meaning all of our faults.
Who is the double?
It 's the invisible companion is always present in spirit that everyone of us carries with him since birth until the extreme step, to give a better idea, is the baggage which contained the essences of all the experiences that have created over time, the inclinations and impulses, instincts and passions, likes and dislikes, bad habits, the inadequacies and contradictions, phobias, blocks and fears, limitations and defects of the person, ie 'set of Ego Psychology, who follow us faithfully and invisibly and never give up during the course of our existence.
But it is very important to make a distinction: in the dark, glowing mass of energy that the instincts and impulses are not recognized and not dominated by the Axis, are the shadows of the habits, patterns and educational models, and the inclinations talent that may be negative self-constitute in the depths of an individual and an entity distinct and independent, which in extreme cases can take on the appearance of an ego completely separate as in a schizoid condition, it is this aspect that should be kept under ' eye. But the other
processed part of the consciousness and awareness is the foundation of the interior light of an individual, from which it can draw positive energy to help the dark side to grow and change.
Everyone is strongly influenced by the baggage of negative and destructive forces, but is stimulated in certain situations of life to become aware of to turn them into positive inner work with a silent but conscious.
However, it is appropriate to make an occasional check on themselves to understand how much there is still obscure to be recognized and processed, can be done by way of conscious relaxation exercise:
a) should get in a comfortable, relaxed position and enter a state of receptivity on for easy browsing with true sincerity and objectivity all the negative aspects of his character, especially those who are stimulated by some action of which has not accomplished very satisfied (bring lots of examples from everyday life) ; immediately struck by the awareness that some dark sides, but first you did not know they are there in silence, hidden, and condition us to adopt attitudes and behaviors often questionable, and that make us suffer.
on these should be directed to the sustained attention by the Axis. There
to make a consideration: these negative aspects are usually hidden and often removed because there ashamed of, but it is a sign of the times that the "double" to lure more and more light, and forces the individual who follows him to take responsibility for his actions and turn it into a positive, because there are many occasions in which it occurs and actions arising from them.
How is it twice?
should focus especially on interpersonal relationships: a couple, family, friendship, work, or simply communication in groups, communities, etc. .. that often, during the exchange of ideas, opinions and judgments are often arrives in fierce debates, in furious arguments that exclude the serene impartiality from the object of conversation. In such situations daily
can very often be the case that at certain times of frustration and discontent for personal reasons and even the most trivial and obvious inability to understand arguments and scuffles break out from which they are manifested in aggressively taking over, selfishness, vanity and personal ambition, the reason for the initial discussion takes second place, why leave out the inadequacies, injury, trauma suffered in the course of the lives, the lust for power and anger.
In such moments you are in front of the clash of the "double" without any reservation.
We bring some examples: a) the couple's life: often there is an excessive emotional and mental health (apart from the deep and unknown karmic reasons that are the basis of the report) that are attributed to another, which acts as a mirror, their inadequacies, shortcomings and the shadows of his personality. Sometimes the other becomes the enemy, the enemy against which to download the shotgun, the target is built with their own prejudices and dark sides and there is no reason to change his mind, the only solution is the annulment of an illusion (who has done, for example, with the separation, she felt over time the lack thereof).
You lose sight of the real value of the person, his positive qualities and become victims of perverse game image that project their unconscious outside the enemy that is feared and hated.
This experience is also made with people outside the couple's relationship, but it is much easier within it, is the case which is discussed in psychology, namely the transfer of its other drawbacks: it is the unconscious mechanism that aims to exonerate his double and that distorts the objective view of reality;
b) family relations is the same phenomenon that happens in a relationship with the difference that will form two "parties" because the components: children, brothers and sisters, parents, grandparents and uncles, cousins, brothers-and boyfriends are lined up, forming a "party", according to their interests and feelings of kinship, culture and in evolution and war, especially at times when you have to make decisions, is complicated: you say slander and lies, come out of envy, jealousy , resentment and hatred, anger and manipulation, as well as in meetings of working groups, study or social life (condominiums, and political life of study, etc ...) and especially in communities aimed at developing knowledge for self-improvement same in both secular and religious, in short, wherever there is a meeting-exchange of views and characters and temperaments, create tensions and conflicts, where instead of just on those occasions should express acceptance respectful understanding of others, and harmony, in such situations, the real presence of "doubles" and their interaction is really very active and destructive in the sense that causes conflicts and debates, arguments and insults and sometimes even violence by the "flock" which trigger the baser instincts and inhuman (often in the media is reporting news of tragedies as a result of fights and assaults).
causes?
's more than legitimate to ask what are the causes of these phenomena at a deep level: one is the most important is that the "double" feels provoked and stimulated by different modes of thinking and feeling, from the different behaviors and attitudes of those who are overlooked, especially when you discuss matters of interest or material or moral issues of religious, political, social, scientific or philosophical or even the most trivial as sports, entertainment, food, etc.. The fight follows
doubles as a set script: just a person expressing this or talk about their ideas, which immediately triggered as a reaction to the interior of each spring and then trigger the verbal confrontations or those judgments are born, sometimes unspoken, that cuts like a scalpel, which is not easy to control, and indeed a strange phenomenon apparently happens: it seems that the people in question are multiplied to excess, are innumerable and increasingly angry enough to create a glowing, as if there are demons that have enraged the chaos by creating more opportunities for clashes, often brutal. E 'unnecessary use reason to calm people, we often get counterproductive results, it is wiser to remain silent not to proceed with discussions or even drop out and maybe go by the figure of a person of weak character.
What could be the right attitude to adopt in such circumstances?
The first thing you should do every day, (the most effective prevention) is to strive to be aware of their faults or negative psychological ego, watch them through the eyes of the mind, as you highlight the thoughts feelings and actions, possibly without illusions, but with sincere objectivity and wonder how and what to do to control them and turn them into positives. This is the goal we must strive with all his strength, if you want to make progress in personal growth.
Attention must be paid to all possible temptations and subtle ways implemented by the "double" to avoid losing power in the subconscious, such as, for example, falsification of reality that is not the objective perception of a situation not to suffer delusions and destructive attacks to our ego, and the justification of their behavior on the basis of bogus excuses and elementary as that of having to attack the other because he seems to want to overthrow us his resentment, hatred and anger, resentment and hatred, when more objective analysis that we have accumulated to such feelings of unconsciously when we are ashamed.
So should understand and develop the right knowledge and understanding of us and understand the other, whoever he is, his insults, his attacks. This requires and develops inner strength, the presence of consciousness and leads to a healthy perception of us, the other and the world around us.
If then any attempt at clarification or appeasement does not lead to any positive result, then it is a waste no use of energy and should leave and give up trusting in new opportunities that are more conducive to grips with the new strength gained from the exercises and self-assertion made ad hoc.
these days is vital and essential to understand its dual in order to avoid unnecessary tensions, conflicts and anxieties, and aim to recognized acceptable even for those who live near us, and indeed in the light of knowledge of the law of karma, you should think in situations difficult kind of conflict: "Here is your chance to be attracted to me to know and track down the" Playboy "double that affects me because I constantly stimulated to fight obscures the true vision of reality in which I live."
So it is right and proper to do more to find the true invisible friend, the shadow hidden sometimes subtle and deceitful and work on themselves to recognize and illuminate it. Of work to do there own time, I would say at any time of day.