Love active
The way to become operational with cosmic energy, love
The way to become operational with cosmic energy, love
from everyday life as it unfolds, we realize that more and more requests for obligations, commitments and responsibilities at all levels are becoming more pressing and difficult, it seems that the continuous flow of experiences is being done faster and more compelling, as if it were stronger than the cosmic energy, so it requires more attention and use of a very effective tool in its effects, although at a somewhat 'difficult in application, energy love , following the simple rules, as follows.
I will encourage anyone with the intention of becoming active in energy-person love saying that, even if his efforts failed so many times (the battles), important is winning the war for self-realization , in the light of my long experience, I can say that if you have a minimum of patience, confidence and intention, in the end you can win a peaceful balance active and aware.
I want to state that a discussion will follow a bit 'harsh behavior of certain women, which is just about to become aware, and I have been suggested be immediate and spontaneous interviews with people of the female sex, the most diverse in age and social status, so do not get angry women during the reading of considerations and examples that follow, because men also have similar behaviors, and sometimes even worse, but are less visible.
Now you can begin by addressing one of the many problems relating to love life, work, relationships and work on personal growth, a very common problem among women, no longer teenagers, not having a love affair as they want, ie with a regular man, always helpful and full of interest and attention, they feel unresolved, nervous and pessimistic; then when it comes to love, taking in their visceral reactions like, " I give him my love if I can be heard often, courting me, shows me his interest frequently, looking for me sexually, otherwise I'm on my position and look forward to the events (you can see nervousness, restlessness and anxiety), only if there is a nod from her, take my love. "
course, this makes the waiting position passive woman, what does that mean? Employee, insecure, unhappy and mostly unable to fully live the present, to appreciate all aspects of new, original who can give the taste and the pleasure of a full and satisfying life.
Who is in this condition can not speak of love, and he speaks, it is only an illusion because love is at large energy, creativity and movement, and release from his heart and mind that flood the positive forces space and give life to what is inside you.
consideration is to make a bitter and bad: because these days everything is reduced to a commodity exchange, even love is part of the goods: "I give you my love, (it's not clear what ), you give me? ". The exchange can be done on the sexual practice but when you go to a sentimental emotional and spiritual level, we can not no longer do such an exchange because the inner world is a too individual responds to subtle energy laws are difficult to interpret and maneuver, at least initially, and if we think too much, you fall in the spirit of the mental exchange of goods.
Here's an example: "saving the game" that is this: "I do, if he does not give me availability, attention, etc ..." means to stop the exchange process and miss the experience of this with full commitment only grow with enthusiasm and satisfaction. This tactic is practiced by many women, those who expect at all costs to be chosen, loved, understood and essential to its Partners: why? Why do not agree, do not they value and do not have the right amount of dignity, then devise any means of creating a lasting relationship (loneliness avoided?) Often sacrificing quality for quantity, but losing the chance to live a useful life processes spiritual growth that is realized only when we accept, we respect and cultivate their identity with respect and dignity. Some men often fall into this behavior.
fact, being influenced by one's partner means a loss of identity and dignity, and this is the trap in which they fall all men and women, that's why you meet people confused, skidding unresolved who do not know, do not understand and therefore do not engage in a secret simple and rewarding once you understand: to contribute positive energy in all circumstances, situation and relationship. How?
Example: Lisa has a friendship that wants to consolidate in affair (there was not love at first sight) with Franco, separated by little and still dependent on the bond passed, and every so often meet with ordinary effusions, once they consummated a sexual relationship successful.
He is very reluctant to get involved in a new relationship because they are still tied to the woman earlier in the subconscious. Lisa follows the conservative tactic of waiting, not the contact and waiting to be searched. What are you doing waiting? E 'involved in the mental cobweb of doubt of whether, because of, of, but in reality does not live on love, on the contrary, it is not satisfied, it is insecure, nervous, does not feel accepted and understood, but it leaves escape unfortunately that does not come back.
So what should be done to enter in the energy and love to feel loved and satisfied fully alive and capable of loving her own initiative?
First follow practical advice: write with a strong intention on a piece of paper everything you want to achieve in relation to Franco: understanding and mutual acceptance, affection, interest and full availability, communion of thoughts feelings and emotions, sexual pleasure and harmony and great creativity and progress ... .. Once you've written these desires, should penetrate strength of feeling and thought, enthusiasm, believing and trying to achieve internally, regardless of the results of this effort. This means turning the energy of love that naturally expands in every direction from its interior, by their own will and just because the wonderful effect of being active, involved, full of warmth and enthusiasm are reflected around us and the person you want and ourselves. Just try it!
But at some point in its journey we realize that the problem of love with a partner, is one aspect of a larger problem, that the overall growth of personality, ie, when for various reasons I can not be satisfied with a peaceful and romantic relationship, usually have other obstacles and obstacles in other areas of my life: work, interpersonal relationships, in achieving my goals pursued, therefore, there is a deep problem of basic needs to be addressed, something is missing or is poorly set up my own plan of life.
I should investigate objectively understand where to start reconstruction work of my Ego top of my identity and personal dignity. Do not be discouraged!: There are a thousand opportunities to know the work to be done and the tools to do so, it is important to settle early and want to do the least progress.
So we can list some psycho deficiencies present in each but more in women than in man, is perhaps more accurate to say, most noticeable in women due to its different nature, which insist on and work for change: not accepted and esteem, desire to be loved / a, chosen / ae considered to be a partner and not by love of their own initiative, inability to control the reactions that the other raises and recognize that part of ourselves, (and hence cause of all suffering is to be found in us) to think that no one person should lean on experience loneliness and abandonment, and the idea that the only true possession is not inner sexual and so it feels merged in the thoughts, feelings and emotions to 'Another / a, not the great love and understand that any relationship must be built step by step, realizing the great goal to realize their ideals into reality with moral independence and conditioning, and the consciousness that we are part of a whole which is manifested as inexhaustible energy of love.
fact, when we are on the line of awareness and transformation of ourselves, we proceed on all levels with equal energy: in romantic relationships we get confirmation of affection, we feel the work more efficient, safe and successful, in making ourselves more fully complied with and aware that the most effective way to feel the wave is to become more active and creative. What does this mean? Porto
a very simple but significant: they are not happy with the way I live, flat, dull, without interest, in the morning I wake up more tired than ever, I fear to face the day full of surprises, I feel heralded by a place to another without being able to fight it, (many people enjoy being in that state, why not think about problems that give rise to high concern) but the duties (at least to live with dignity) and responsibilities are knocking at the door, then where can I get that spark of energy that allows me to feel useful at least to myself?
repeat the advice to take a pen and paper, sit around a table and write what you want at the moment, do not go to work, take a walk in the park or the beach, do something unusual, read or see a nice film, being with your partner for an erotic encounter ... ... you become aware of this status and to strive to think with pictures an ideal situation exactly opposite to that experienced: live closely with thousands of interests, are satisfied with who I am, I have pleasure to face the unknown as a challenge everyday, I decided to go in a definite direction for my initiative, I do everything you ask me with enthusiasm ... .. Important
groped at least, if you can not for all, that's fine produce a penny of the small daily program ... .. a penny today, one tomorrow, one in ten days, eventually turning the spark, I would say the flame and the taste of combat.
Then, if someone keeps saying that it makes him, I say he wants to do at any cost "the contrarian", is occupied by forces of the obstacle, but it does make it to the light trying to escape at least altre100 times, then even if fails .. Then I rely on God's hands because he has mercy.
