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The rush of the existence

The rush of the existence

Who can be defined as master of his own life?
Everyday Life, for some 'time to the present day, it runs very fast, requiring continuous transformation and change; fact, in every field of our inner and outer personal experience witnessing a growing strong intensification experience at all levels, in which feelings, thoughts and will are as divided, loose and no longer effective to defend against possible disturbances in the psychic sphere, therefore requires a considerable capacity for self-starting a reasonable change in the relationship with oneself, what does this mean? Observe, analyze all the possible reactions to the events with regard to master and master-level mental negative effects of living which are many and subtle and addictive.
Let me explain with examples: the relationship with themselves may lack the trust and confidence in their abilities and potential, so just a bad experience or a lack stimuli of sound, a love affair that squeaks, a rejection of an examination, a goal or an unfulfilled desire to let go or accuse a strong external aggression that is used for cover as in some way trying to defend or recover; But the result is to create dependency or substance, medicine or drugs, or from experience and the media, which are like a surrogate of feelings through, for example, internet, dramas, movies, evasion, journals and magazines that tend to create stimuli to fill the emptiness with a virtual reality.
Through this intensification of experience and tests the individual encounter increasingly difficult to drive and master their own lives, because it is very exposed to external influences in our society.
It is therefore very strong danger of a growing mental imbalance due to manipulative influences from the outside: see and hear several times daily press of the television or read newspapers printed newspapers increased states of anxiety because it undermined the personal safety and collective murders, robberies, catastrophic events spread all over the world create, in fact, anxieties, fears and insecurities exterior and interior, often with violence because they destroy the faith, hope and positivity that life is worth.
These pictures and information work in the current energy subconsciously causing strong negative associations for images: - So what happens at 10, 100, 1000 km away, can also happen in my neighborhood, street or in my apartment or condominium-each thinks. You can not escape from this vicious circle that causes more of a painful sense of emptiness and helplessness.
E 'at this point that one must ask: - So who is master of his own life?
To answer with some examples of objective analysis to a person who proves to be largely in control of their lives, it must still investigate other aspects of social life and relationships know is right for them to dominate because they have direct consequences in our mental life.
It 's a real finding that our social life, since he began attending the school-age children, is organized as: learning, play activities, work, social relationships that must comply with the duties of citizens rights must necessarily be driven from the outside with laws, customs, traditions and norms of behavior affecting the psyche of the person, if that does not accept them then consciously free from the sense of imposition.
Sometimes we have the illusion to think, act and feel independently in relation to the way physical, its problems, however as we are guided, driven by gear and external conditions of social life with its mechanisms and automated with the most dangerous impacts of inner as fear, anxiety, distress and insecurity.
For example, turning on the TV to listen to the daily news is always news about the forward field of work, savings, and the constant poor health care and increased cost of living: these are all details that tend to remove the security key based on external money, power and hold on erasing the sense of well being that sometimes someone can have doing it then fall into the abyss of despair.
say therefore be manipulators from outside influences not only that, but consequently also on the outside looking in products of the entertainment industry the means to fill the emptiness we feel in our inner life.
So if you have no awareness of the causes of these states of anxiety, anxiety and insecurity, it is clear that increases the malaise, the sense of discomfort and disharmony.

What should and can be done?
The first and most important work to do is to discover the degree of dependence on the external world , that money and standardized by those feelings of love, on the welfare and happiness and the power commonly widespread in society, and the type of stimuli at the same time it offers often subtly and indirectly, and also by the need to take drugs, medicines or drugs, to understand what's happening in the depths of his being and that what affects his balance.
subtly escapes even the most skilled observers of the addiction to alcohol and drugs, especially smoked or snorted with their disastrous effects, because, being very common in all walks of life, from teenagers to adults rich or poor, are not more news are accepted as an aspect standard of living of our days, very serious thing because it is precisely the root cause of blurring of consciousness.
But especially not considered in its tragic consequences from alcohol dependence: physicians, biologists and neurologists show with examples and statistics, derived from years of observation and study, the disastrous effects on the nervous system and not only the use and alcohol abuse.
the really disturbing is that those who hired him, is fully convinced that he is out of the devastating effects (see nervous diseases and accidents) and get out whenever he wants, what is absolutely true and can also use drugs.
now know that you approach these substances, alcohol and drugs, because something does not work in the mind and psyche of the person and there is some great tension, anxiety and fears in everyday life.
is then justified the pursuit and development of knowledge that allows us to understand all the possible dependencies in this historical period in which the need for certain substances and dependence on certain mechanisms causing the increase in mental illness eliminating the possibility of being masters of their own lives.
need to reflect: the awareness of mental processes cha occur deep within an individual, caused by its live, save only in part by falling into a state of depression due to disharmony of the outside world with its subtle manipulation and aggression; say, in part, because you have to fill the void, do not you just recognize it and find it but it is essential to create new pulse of thoughts, feelings and actions.
beginning does not matter so much to have clear ideas about what to do and believe what you want to change something, react impulsively, stifling their freedom and vitality, create new situations maybe only imagine.
's exactly the image most relevant to that situation of life is strong and intelligent fighter, with the body covered of oil, meeting his opponent on the mat for competition, and narrow escapes all taken as a piece of soap from the rough hands of the user with little attention and is able to react and create new moves to achieve his ultimate goal: the victory on the opponent, the conquest of his inner confidence and enthusiasm in living the experiences easier, a new way of thinking and feeling the everyday reality of very rich opportunities of every kind and made to feel satisfied, all you need a bit 'of imagination to create new situations and opportunities to revitalize certain aspects of their lives.
A very effective way, in fact, and of great importance evolution is to awaken a genuine concern for our fellow men, specifically for those who live around, trying to understand, recognize and appreciate their way of being and expression, the exchange of experience and communication and especially the story of disappointment and suffering, fears and anxieties that are experienced in daily life are common and, though there is a determination to get out of the fear and disharmony within, strengthen our deep inner core, make us feel stronger when we feel the cost of others: will it take to become masters of their own lives, but the will to serve the knowledge that understands the mind and reveals all the subtle and insidious mechanisms from which we have blurred with the result of feeling separated, dependent on surrogates that the consumer society offers us.
The dream of becoming masters of their own life can be realized as long as you want and want it with all my heart and mind and discover the right tactics to achieve it.
A demonstration of the possibility of realizing this dream, harbor a single example of someone who can master their own lives: Mrs. Federica P., forty-five, has a son with severe psychological and physical problems, earn a minimum salary but has to live with dignity considerable wealth at its disposal: warmth, involvement and determination to substantiate its ideas on what and how? Both at work and in personal relationships with everyone, without distinction always has a great willingness, interest, respect and love for others.
Speaking of the difficulties of daily life that affect all of the influences aggressive blocking the free expression of the will of all or almost all, she smiles and says - as long as I have strength in my body and love in my heart, nothing scares me, everything what they say, is the result of fear and sense of inadequacy that we have rooted in the mind the more we talk the less blends.
For her fears, limitations and obstacles are opportunities that challenge us to do well, just a phone call from a friend, seeking advice, a word of discouragement to a person in distress to take and make a small gesture of love and speak words of solidarity.
I sometimes touch because it makes me understand that it is in giving that we receive makes me feel good and my mind silencing speculation that raises the question, to dig to find sometimes neglecting to act on the heart, but I asked her what is his secret, she revealed to me in a very simple and clear: - I have faith that love overcomes all difficulties, I am interested in the problems of others and I regard and esteem for those who deserve it and I enjoy seeing people who is well and rejoices, is the same as if I, I try to enjoy what I have at the moment because in the meantime life goes as it should, I choose it, accept it and live it to the fullest.
Reflecting on these allegations I have raised her with satisfaction, that Mrs Federica is one of the few people who are truly masters of their own lives.
is not an example from the book "Heart" but simply a person who understands and puts into practice with an awareness of the most pressing demands of our times: think positively and to live life with participation, sharing and understanding for everything and everyone.

Some formulas of self-therapy that can facilitate the achievement of this Objective:

1. I wish with all my strength to be free / to choose the right path to my realization, consciously accept all conditions and circumstances in ways tailored to my goals with creativity and imagination;
2. They shared the experiences of others but a balanced, alive with excitement and pleasure of my life, always taking the positive and joyful moment to share with others;
3. are increasingly director and actor in my life that I belongs entirely; love my life with everything myself and with the unwavering faith of being the absolute master;
4. I feel fully satisfied with what I have and what they are, I have the drive to improve changing my way of thinking in a positive and creative, what I want, get it deep and with total confidence.

Does Antifreeze Feel Sticky

TWICE (second part)

Yet the characteristics of the double

-up to the problem of "double" and its dynamics, it is very important to recognize and clarify the harmful effects of some quality-shadow dark, unfortunately very common, causing negative consequences and behavior that degrade human dignity, especially when they express themselves without control: vanity conceit, envy, ambition and deceit, as much tied together and interdependent.
For a careful and objective analysis of the behavior of people in everyday life in our society at any level, can not escape that especially the first, the presumption of vanity, is that the negative spring guide and stimulate the actions of several individuals.

What's the presumption vanity?
You could give a definition of its psychological significance, the tendency a person to belittle anyone who stands in comparison to elevate himself to shine overestimating its own merits, and not always of stable, thus giving more importance to the appearance of being.
E 'increasingly prevalent in all spheres of social life to hear people, even young, enhance its quality: the economic means, social status, level of culture, appearance, beauty, knowledge and extrasensory faculties, possession of absolute truth and so many other qualities, except the only and most important, being a ground of being, that is humility, can not be part of the logic of appearance.
In every workplace, in fact, there is always someone who wants to emerge claiming to know and be able to do all the best, to know how to organize, with excellent results and even if he has any direct control, critical and imposes its ideas; and what about what happens at the meetings of any kind taking place in communities, groups, associations, condominiums, etc .... There is always the one who knows best, or at least wants to show to know more, well-trained in her field, talk shows and making others feel at a lower level and insignificant, so much so that many retire and give the field?
E 'human on the other hand there are people who tend to overestimate rising on the other giving demonstration of superiority, but it is one thing to think and act with respect for others, another is to weigh its crushing superiority vainly with disrespectful behavior.
Even in romantic relationships is the same music, only that in such cases, such behavior is heavier and because of the real tragedies: can not long endure you who live near and almost always tries to overpower you with his personality , which is the cause of continuing conflict which can lead to dissension and division.
So who has understood the meaning of life and live it with true respect is not deceived by the vain flattery of the ego, the overestimation of one's ego, try to understand the reasons for this behavior, often very deeply rooted in the subconscious and effects also experiences in previous lives. There is always a hidden cause that justifies certain attitudes, the conscious person understands it, but whoever is not aware of, is influenced in his thinking feeling and acting.

Behavior vain presumptuous
The presumptuous, we said, overestimates himself but makes no consideration and praise to others, is full of himself, engaged in building his magnificent castle in which we hear the king, the king and the others who I am? His subjects.
How many people will follow such a cliché! And what they do to mask their weaknesses and shortcomings of character, as is made to cover them, you will hear this and conditioning in the unconscious? They use lies and deception to support their ambition for success, honors and awards for the sole purpose of deceiving himself to be worthy of any situation, to appear strong and capable of overcoming limitations, shortcomings and failures.
is why we give airs of superiority and tend to rise and appear better than others but always lurking in the heart in unconscious envy those who seem to minimize or downgrade their value even with really merits acquired real.
Envy is widespread in all areas, from work to personal relationships without boundaries or barriers of any kind, is contagious and often becomes the secret weapon with which the vanity is manifested through the thin and sharp criticism that research in the hair ' egg in every thing by highlighting, rather exaggerated, it's always to belittle others, ambition and the illusion of being more forward and make progress in their personal growth without making the right effort, if the vain has a minimum of awareness, otherwise it is a disrespectful person always ready to show off by hitting the other with accusations, reprimands and disapproval, a truly anxious and destructive to manifest and express themselves in social relations.
Yes, because developmentally mature and grow with positive results requires a lot of commitment, interest and inner work, the arrogant (vain) seems a waste of time, when he can get more easily what with the only appearance with the illusory appearance.

What is the right way to overcome the presumption?
The deception and lies, sharp criticism and disrespectful, the presumption and vanity will cease only when it develops in the hearts and minds of those who want to take the right attitude towards himself, towards life and towards his neighbor, a healthy and steady development concern and respect for themselves and especially for others, when we recognize the merits and the merits of others, that is when the other is covered by our true and sincere care and attention holding.
The most basic form of love, appreciation and consideration is balanced and well-deserved and caring for others that can be achieved even with the effort to correct some bad critical reviews, not born to be objective establishment of facts, but from superficial spirit of dislike and envy, in fact, very often, some good personal relations, constructive and lasting a long time because a word that fail at the wrong time, made a phone call, a missed appointment, suggested by the unconscious forces of the double, evoke a negative picture Friend's based only on jealousy, on the touchy on misinterpreted pride on their selfishness perhaps these negative aspects are interrupted friendships or romantic relationships of major evolutionary content regardless of the road traveled together toward goals of personal growth.
course work for recognition and processing aspects of the double, they are really so many, is challenging and continuous, but appears to be the only way to achieve the complete liberation from negative energies shadow knows how many lives that dwell in the depths of our subconscious, causing aches and pains, the distorted view of reality and move away from peaceful and wise acceptance of ourselves and surrounding reality.
This sense of separateness is NONAMORE means and the prevalence of the dark side of the person, then exactly the opposite of what we seek with all our strength: the light of awareness, the warmth of union with our higher self; words are not beautiful and impressive but the goal we want to achieve in our inner life with effort, trust and hope.
To facilitate the recognition and overcoming of all these negative aspects of the double, it was noted from experience that some self-affirmation or self-care formulas are very useful and effective:

1. Vado increasingly controlling reactions, negative feelings and judgments in against persons, situations and events, my heart and my mind are warm and positive light for the love and respect for others;
2. been interested and active participation ... ... .... (name of the people) recognizing quality and qualities that enrich me too, we are together on the way of our improvement and work with trust and brotherly love;
3. I agree totally as they are in my character with strengths and weaknesses developed great respect, attention, care and consideration for me and for all.
4. I live my life as a continuous opportunity to know my character and depth to develop the light of loving awareness and acceptance of my Ego.

The most important task of our existence is by far the recognition processing and overcoming the "double", the final goal of everyone who cherishes the freedom and independence, inner, active love, understood as an effort to recognize and help others as a fellow traveler with the same common problems and difficulties, objectives and aspirations, fears and courage, is the only way to achieve the goal together happily.

Forget A Combo To A Lock

TWICE

The Double
The Invisible faithful companion, the shadow of each individual hidden

If you could ask each person whether or not evolved as the most worrying problem for the actual difficulties solve it, the vast majority would answer: interpersonal relationships at all levels, emotional, family, work and social life. What
may be the cause?
The "double" meaning all of our faults.
Who is the double?
It 's the invisible companion is always present in spirit that everyone of us carries with him since birth until the extreme step, to give a better idea, is the baggage which contained the essences of all the experiences that have created over time, the inclinations and impulses, instincts and passions, likes and dislikes, bad habits, the inadequacies and contradictions, phobias, blocks and fears, limitations and defects of the person, ie 'set of Ego Psychology, who follow us faithfully and invisibly and never give up during the course of our existence.
But it is very important to make a distinction: in the dark, glowing mass of energy that the instincts and impulses are not recognized and not dominated by the Axis, are the shadows of the habits, patterns and educational models, and the inclinations talent that may be negative self-constitute in the depths of an individual and an entity distinct and independent, which in extreme cases can take on the appearance of an ego completely separate as in a schizoid condition, it is this aspect that should be kept under ' eye. But the other
processed part of the consciousness and awareness is the foundation of the interior light of an individual, from which it can draw positive energy to help the dark side to grow and change.
Everyone is strongly influenced by the baggage of negative and destructive forces, but is stimulated in certain situations of life to become aware of to turn them into positive inner work with a silent but conscious.
However, it is appropriate to make an occasional check on themselves to understand how much there is still obscure to be recognized and processed, can be done by way of conscious relaxation exercise:
a) should get in a comfortable, relaxed position and enter a state of receptivity on for easy browsing with true sincerity and objectivity all the negative aspects of his character, especially those who are stimulated by some action of which has not accomplished very satisfied (bring lots of examples from everyday life) ; immediately struck by the awareness that some dark sides, but first you did not know they are there in silence, hidden, and condition us to adopt attitudes and behaviors often questionable, and that make us suffer.
on these should be directed to the sustained attention by the Axis. There
to make a consideration: these negative aspects are usually hidden and often removed because there ashamed of, but it is a sign of the times that the "double" to lure more and more light, and forces the individual who follows him to take responsibility for his actions and turn it into a positive, because there are many occasions in which it occurs and actions arising from them.
How is it twice?
should focus especially on interpersonal relationships: a couple, family, friendship, work, or simply communication in groups, communities, etc. .. that often, during the exchange of ideas, opinions and judgments are often arrives in fierce debates, in furious arguments that exclude the serene impartiality from the object of conversation. In such situations daily
can very often be the case that at certain times of frustration and discontent for personal reasons and even the most trivial and obvious inability to understand arguments and scuffles break out from which they are manifested in aggressively taking over, selfishness, vanity and personal ambition, the reason for the initial discussion takes second place, why leave out the inadequacies, injury, trauma suffered in the course of the lives, the lust for power and anger.
In such moments you are in front of the clash of the "double" without any reservation.
We bring some examples: a) the couple's life: often there is an excessive emotional and mental health (apart from the deep and unknown karmic reasons that are the basis of the report) that are attributed to another, which acts as a mirror, their inadequacies, shortcomings and the shadows of his personality. Sometimes the other becomes the enemy, the enemy against which to download the shotgun, the target is built with their own prejudices and dark sides and there is no reason to change his mind, the only solution is the annulment of an illusion (who has done, for example, with the separation, she felt over time the lack thereof).
You lose sight of the real value of the person, his positive qualities and become victims of perverse game image that project their unconscious outside the enemy that is feared and hated.
This experience is also made with people outside the couple's relationship, but it is much easier within it, is the case which is discussed in psychology, namely the transfer of its other drawbacks: it is the unconscious mechanism that aims to exonerate his double and that distorts the objective view of reality;
b) family relations is the same phenomenon that happens in a relationship with the difference that will form two "parties" because the components: children, brothers and sisters, parents, grandparents and uncles, cousins, brothers-and boyfriends are lined up, forming a "party", according to their interests and feelings of kinship, culture and in evolution and war, especially at times when you have to make decisions, is complicated: you say slander and lies, come out of envy, jealousy , resentment and hatred, anger and manipulation, as well as in meetings of working groups, study or social life (condominiums, and political life of study, etc ...) and especially in communities aimed at developing knowledge for self-improvement same in both secular and religious, in short, wherever there is a meeting-exchange of views and characters and temperaments, create tensions and conflicts, where instead of just on those occasions should express acceptance respectful understanding of others, and harmony, in such situations, the real presence of "doubles" and their interaction is really very active and destructive in the sense that causes conflicts and debates, arguments and insults and sometimes even violence by the "flock" which trigger the baser instincts and inhuman (often in the media is reporting news of tragedies as a result of fights and assaults).
causes?
's more than legitimate to ask what are the causes of these phenomena at a deep level: one is the most important is that the "double" feels provoked and stimulated by different modes of thinking and feeling, from the different behaviors and attitudes of those who are overlooked, especially when you discuss matters of interest or material or moral issues of religious, political, social, scientific or philosophical or even the most trivial as sports, entertainment, food, etc.. The fight follows
doubles as a set script: just a person expressing this or talk about their ideas, which immediately triggered as a reaction to the interior of each spring and then trigger the verbal confrontations or those judgments are born, sometimes unspoken, that cuts like a scalpel, which is not easy to control, and indeed a strange phenomenon apparently happens: it seems that the people in question are multiplied to excess, are innumerable and increasingly angry enough to create a glowing, as if there are demons that have enraged the chaos by creating more opportunities for clashes, often brutal. E 'unnecessary use reason to calm people, we often get counterproductive results, it is wiser to remain silent not to proceed with discussions or even drop out and maybe go by the figure of a person of weak character.
What could be the right attitude to adopt in such circumstances?
The first thing you should do every day, (the most effective prevention) is to strive to be aware of their faults or negative psychological ego, watch them through the eyes of the mind, as you highlight the thoughts feelings and actions, possibly without illusions, but with sincere objectivity and wonder how and what to do to control them and turn them into positives. This is the goal we must strive with all his strength, if you want to make progress in personal growth.
Attention must be paid to all possible temptations and subtle ways implemented by the "double" to avoid losing power in the subconscious, such as, for example, falsification of reality that is not the objective perception of a situation not to suffer delusions and destructive attacks to our ego, and the justification of their behavior on the basis of bogus excuses and elementary as that of having to attack the other because he seems to want to overthrow us his resentment, hatred and anger, resentment and hatred, when more objective analysis that we have accumulated to such feelings of unconsciously when we are ashamed.
So should understand and develop the right knowledge and understanding of us and understand the other, whoever he is, his insults, his attacks. This requires and develops inner strength, the presence of consciousness and leads to a healthy perception of us, the other and the world around us.
If then any attempt at clarification or appeasement does not lead to any positive result, then it is a waste no use of energy and should leave and give up trusting in new opportunities that are more conducive to grips with the new strength gained from the exercises and self-assertion made ad hoc.
these days is vital and essential to understand its dual in order to avoid unnecessary tensions, conflicts and anxieties, and aim to recognized acceptable even for those who live near us, and indeed in the light of knowledge of the law of karma, you should think in situations difficult kind of conflict: "Here is your chance to be attracted to me to know and track down the" Playboy "double that affects me because I constantly stimulated to fight obscures the true vision of reality in which I live."
So it is right and proper to do more to find the true invisible friend, the shadow hidden sometimes subtle and deceitful and work on themselves to recognize and illuminate it. Of work to do there own time, I would say at any time of day.

Shower After Waxing Face

experience of emptiness and lack of stimulation

situation of deep crisis



It 's a growing feeling among people aware of a change in energy and people who live for the day without so many aspirations and desires to know and transform itself to better feel the emptiness, 'dark abyss, the pit holds valid when it feels like being sucked, it is a painful feeling of suffering and death inside, it seems that everything is finished.

the emptiness joins the consequent lack of drive, interest, motivation and life goals that would drive to act, to live for something rewarding: the predominant deep distress and anxiety.

Take, then, the vital need to look around in your environment and in its dealings of securities, the valuable support that establish connections and links with anyone or anything, but if you do not have values, ideas and personal motivations able to arouse hope and expectations and determination to respond, it often falls into a fit of depression, demoralization and killing that inspired you to seek easy solutions: drugs, alcohol, sex, avoidance, etc. ...

why even among our dear friends and you see people tired and demotivated, always nervous and negative, without much of that warmth which creates links valid and rewarding, in their discourses also suggest that something is missing, who are dissatisfied with how things are going in every aspect of human emotional, economic and social, interpersonal relationships and especially themselves. No longer meets all the certainties personal moral, religious, scientific and cultural illusions seem to belong to an old world that changes rapidly, which does not give security, if not aroused in ourselves by our own efforts.

This is the picture of crisis in which lives most of the people in our society that has no awareness of changes taking place both in the world around us that above all in ourselves, that sometimes changes must be done to adapt to demands of the times in continuous and constant transformation.

So no real surprise when we see and hear angry people make judgments on anyone stroncanti understood, hatred and resentment on the other, disrespect and insolence in their speeches and often overbearing intention of wanting to change the world to their liking to clear people or situations that create their discomfort with the excuse that everything is unfair.

Even in romantic relationships and interpersonal, the triumph of selfishness, the desire to manipulate others and a desire that can become a mania, to be loved, as if this was due, without making a minimal effort to participate and develop 'impulse to change and experiment with the new for the old escape without groped to change; triumph dissatisfaction and close to pleasure, shared the joy of living and loving and above all the calculate dry and fierce that stifles any impulse of humanity.

The sense of tragedy of the crisis became clear, when you talk to these people about the purposes of life, the motivations for human because the town has become the focus of reality whose law-guide is gain, personal advantage, success and well-being, enjoyment quick and fleeting, and the neglect of the other species in the superficiality of things spirit.

What is behind these issues so raw? Especially the lack of faith in human moral and spiritual forces such as love, faith, knowledge that transforms the individual, the fear of tomorrow, the failure to address this constructively and pessimism more raw and naive on the results of any effort of change. E 'crisis, what I would call, for lack of divine.


If you could change this negative picture, it follows that the life given to us (though we have chosen) would serve no purpose, any effort to change and improvement would be futile and would be more than justified the sense of emptiness and pessimism more raw.

But fortunately there is medicine and magic wand to fill with fresh water and vital to the bottomless pit exists, it costs nothing to implement it is sufficient to understand certain mental processes, implement them and have confidence in the forces of resurrection present as potential each individual.

there to make a clarification: the medicine is for those who a minimum of will to know, know each other and transform itself to improve, and who did not trust, it is not stimulated, and then falls into the crisis that we talked about becoming a victim of himself.

To understand what is the medicine to overcome inner distress and anxiety that create suffering, we should start from a principle of quantum physics is very important: the human being is a constant source of physical energy and psicomentale always active, is like a radio antenna receiver-transmitter that runs all the time consciously and unconsciously, and then conveys emotions, feelings and their thoughts and receives from the cosmos, as well as their even those issued by others is This is the information capable of enormous innovative developments.

What does this mean?

that every person is unknowingly connected, not only to others but also to everything that surrounds it, especially energy, for example: when they are suffering, sad and unmotivated, negative and I feel fear or discomfort and anxiety, even if you do not speak with others and try to hide my mood, actually I communicate my discomfort to the cosmos and from there it all comes back stronger from all similar species found in it (the law of attraction), and when they are happy, satisfied and happy, joyful and positive, the same process takes place: my positive energies are attracted all similar to those of the same vibration in the cosmos.

This simple law recognized by quantum physics is the key that opens up infinite horizons of achievement in our present and future, in fact, starting from it we can deal with awareness, if we want, and change our present and create our future.

How?

First, you need to know the unique and specific function of thinking to use it then for our purpose: this activity consciously determine our present and future. You are what you think is the greatest of wisdom that is communicated at the beginning of every path of spiritual realization and means that when we think, we create, that we are involved in a creative process: what I think at this moment, it is actually already under construction by creating my future.

derive several consequences from this law: a) if I continuously and forcefully idea, a desire, visualizing a situation in my mind, soon you will realize of course, is only a matter of time (just try and experiment), because set in motion all the energies related in the cosmos;

b) if I think of being poor, unfortunate, unlucky, incompetent, ill ... ... ... well! They are indeed poor, unhappy, unlucky, unable and ill ... ..;

c) if I think I'm healthy, strong, happy, brilliant, powerful, superior ... ... they are actually healthy, strong, and so lucky .... for the same reason (see the quote by dr. Fred Alan Wolf, a quantum physicist at page 20-21 of the Secret).

Now, before proceeding further, it is necessary to clarify a very important aspect of human psicomentale: the difference between conscious thought and indistinct that set of feelings and emotions, feelings, impulses and instincts, images .... That form our moods and affect our behavior, thoughts that improperly call but they are not.

fact, because our mental activity can be defined as thought, should be conducted on a basis of conceptual content, for example, freedom, death, the meaning of life, love, the divine, the law of karma, or destiny, the law of gravity The way to make money, to realize their aspirations and so on ... and involves awareness and willingness as ideas are born wanting to be carried out and then push for a transformation: this is the tool that can fill the void, which dates from ' abyss as turning on the light of consciousness, however, when you are involved in fuzzy feelings and sensations, emotions and impulses, mental images that follow one another rapidly, as is dragged and caught in a strong and glowing energy that surrounds and muddy dark spirit, conscience: this is the land on which the conscious person has to work to bring the light of his thought, his consciousness to dissolve her fears, insecurities, the ghosts of everyday life that are the basis of the meaning of death, tragic end all of the bankruptcy or illusion about the meaning of life.

Then, when we decide to think about supporting our thoughts with feelings, emotions and pictures, we actually emit energy = magnetic waves traveling in the cosmos and returning closer to the antenna receiver-transmitter which issued, that is ourselves. This

is the first reason that encourages everyone to take the initiative to start a journey together, with friends, acquaintances, relatives and companions sentimental educated together in positive thinking about the true meaning of life which will become clearer as you discover and understand the essential points of spiritual growth and maturity by entering into themselves.

will be a very interesting job and a way because we realize more and more to be different in character, cultural education, for choices and goals, but all united towards a single goal: to develop awareness of learning and make a healthy and slow transformation of the way to judge, evaluate and act in the face to the existence, the reality to deal with enthusiasm and joy, especially the trials and challenges, difficulties and the storms and also all the positive aspects of life.

In this regard, to strengthen more and more, to leave the sense of emptiness and to affirm the positive sense of existence, we can help reciting self-affirmation like this: I'm fine, I feel good, everything is in my favor I have nothing to envy to others, I am grateful to life. It can rightly be argued that when there are no problems or stress or physical pain particularly strong, you can do, but when you live in the middle of a crisis or a debilitating physical pain is much more difficult.

My friends and I have developed a technique: when everything is collapsing around us and within us, we strive to assist (if you know) to the entire process, which is based on a rapid succession of sensations and emotions and images negative and sometimes tragic present a picture of a situation (which is not that often) and sometimes think, when pausing the pain but I am still strong, domino well, certainly past the storm, the calm will return, I are positive, it can stand .. phrases very positive, this is the juice. So it reinforces the positive, it should be a continuous exercise to achieve safe and long lasting effects. But there

another way to fill the void and give meaning to his life, an easier way that appeals more to the feeling and sense of participation re-establish contact with friends and acquaintances who may have been neglected for many reasons and new people interested in their problems, their suffering and experiences, some would smile and comment: to become the ladies of St. Vincent!

Before you criticize and block this initiative smugly, should try it, I'm sure that the negative assessment would fall as happened to me several times. In fact, communicating with each other, as is a solid point of reference to cling to exit the vacuum. It is a wonderful experience of sharing and love!

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Karma and Energy Love

Karma Energy-love the method to overcome limitations and negative aspects of his life incomprehensible in light of the conscious force of cosmic


Each of us puts an endless series of questions to understand how does the game of life, to discover the mechanism by its rules, especially when in difficult circumstances and certain heavy can not change certain events, situations and the external course of his thoughts and feelings recurring disease, especially in romantic relationships experience bankruptcy , inability to accomplish that is pursued for some time.

Let us feel more or less unconscious we are faced with a wall of rubber or of being oppressed and forced, by a force above us, to do some good or bad actions and to follow current and conditioning of negative thoughts, emotions and impulses.

The anchor of salvation which can get us through the anguish, dismay, fear, rebellion and helplessness, is the knowledge of the law of karma simple and concrete, the law of cause and effect, which governs the consequences of actions, thoughts and feelings made by each of them in previous lives.

The law of karma is universal and can be identified in the superior divinity, beyond any religious identification Christian, Buddhist, Hindu, Taoist ... ..

know and apply to their lives, this law is to explain the underlying reasons and make a decisive step on the path to self: all the contradictions, the strange events can be explained otherwise incomprehensible, not only, but also develops the ability to create the causes future of a different fate by modifying the positive way of thinking and being in accordance with the following 5 principles and shaping the energy and potential in a proposed evolutionary choices.

The positive effects are manifested in this life from the moment they start work, so it's good to start now.


All the aspirations, the interests and desires are transformed in the next life and in this capacity.


2) Various thoughts and mental frameworks become repeated and displayed trends and attitudes.


3) The will to act on the physical plane becomes action.


repeated actions and directed towards a specific objective circumstances become favorable to their realization.


experience become wisdom and suffered painful but if they become aware.


Every seed sown in the sphere of thought, feeling and action accrued in the right season, is simplistic and self-injury and then complain about their fate, rather Who wants to follow a path of evolution must be able to accept it in all its manifestations, and when it's time to pay off karmic debts contracts, free and altruistic actions, and when availability at times of calm you feel the urge to give their contribution, free from conditioning in the present, the largest and the best of themselves.

All the work you do now, create real capacities, skills and favorable conditions for a development conscious and aware of where fear, insecurity, dismay, distrust and ignorance, in short all the "weeds" are burned as if by magic.

We tend to become aware tools love, the mighty power through which life flourishes, and sprouts.

should, however, give hand to a real transformation of our way of thinking, being, acting and loving.

What is the power available to each capable of actually transforming the individual and capable of overcoming the consequences of the same individual karma?

We enter now the core of the question: is the power of cosmic love, the only one able to overcome all difficulties in life and open up infinite horizons of self-realization.

What that means is, and this force, this irrepressible energy that each of us can arouse in itself and as so to awaken the conscience?

The source of this infinite and inexhaustible energy of love is the force resulted from the experience Christ on earth by the entity, which ended in the sacrifice of Golgotha.

the light of it all the teachings given to humanity by the great masters, Krishna, Hermes, Zoroaster, Lao Tse, Pythagoras, Mani, Moses and Buddha ... .. prove as a necessary and indispensable preparation experience that everyone can now live free choice and will: "Do not I act, but Christ in me" and "Do not I love, but the strength of love flows through me unconditionally on creation ".

This way of thinking, being and acting is to transcend and dissolve all the ego or ego psychological essences, which make up the human entity.

It 'clear that these sentences, letters are cryptic as to express their strength must be experienced involving consciousness and feelings, head and heart, only then will reveal all their creative and transforming power.

To awaken the conscience must take a leap of faith, which means total acceptance of self, this is the first step firmly believed to possess it, feel it vibrate, pulsate in the heart, then address it with the mind towards the right targets. It 'important to concentrate in this initial experience in a moment of serenity and relaxation and creative crisis, in this case would be impossible and counterproductive.

beginning you feel a warm flow of vital energy, able to boil all our being, concentrated in the heart chakra, so you hone all the skills of understanding, sensitivity and clairvoyance that of those around us face is shown in its essence, and we consider as our "brother."

This state of consciousness, full of creative, not all are easily able to reach it, so you have to drill exercises autosuggestion, constant and repeated to create a tendency as the result of a workout.

Here are some tried and tested but you can do many more targeted to the individual person:

I open my heart to the warm energy of love, without fear or calculation, are increasingly positive, helpful and active in understanding, and sheds light heat as the sun without getting anything in return.
increasingly dissolves in my mind and in my heart every feeling of resentment and anger, annoyance or indifference, and resentment, I understand and justify those who hurt me because my heart is open to forgiveness and love.
I'll ever love coming into force in full harmony with myself and others are peaceful, safe and reliable to love with the heart. I understand the more they shared joys and sorrows.


It 'clear that this state of being must be a very intense experience in the whole sphere of feeling, then, when it became normal and safe, it can be challenged by the mind and consciousness and directed towards specific goals.

Our consciousness is like a precious vase in which the liquid is poured equally valuable, when it reaches the edge, just a few drops of overflowing.

The liquid floods the floor where the vessel is resting and continues its run, perhaps irreversible, depends on the amount, if not dried and stored before being poured into other containers.

should be paid first in the cup of forgiveness.

We all hotels in our hearts feelings of injustice, suffering, resentment, hatred, disgust ... always aroused by real people who become the object of our feelings and reactions.

Well the first test, the more difficult is to forgive people who have done wrong. What does it mean to forgive? Does not only mean not to take revenge or not to react badly to certain actions before you receive, do not even mean to replace certain instinctive actions, kind and gentle ways, if we are always present in those feelings of bitterness, annoyance, disgust or rejection and resentment.

Forgiveness means giving through giving beyond our wrongs, hurt feelings, although this still donate, respect and affection, consideration and trust, understanding and goodwill.

Forgiveness restores the normal state of well being and harmony with your Higher Self, because it suggests the real cause of the actions and injuries incurred, and breaks all karmic chain with whom he also did unintentionally offensive action, and then active behavior, very positive, constructive and liberating energy that significantly strengthens love.

The person who does evil, unfortunately, is left to the law of karma, karma, and meet its invariably the effects of his evil act, as the iron law of karma is such an action is an effect, an act of love effects are truly exceptional.

how to use it this inexhaustible energy of love? It should be poured first

on themselves, on their person, as a set of inseparable physical body and subtle bodies which are rooted emotions, feelings, impulses, unconscious conscious "I".

fact, when we are stressed, unhappy and dissatisfied, when we see the distant and almost unattainable fulfillment, when we wonder what good experience all the negative experiences, when you feel the exhaustion of all springs, interests and desires that ultimately give a reason for living, in short, when we're out of the positive current of creative energy that make you feel useful, well integrated in the relationship with ourselves and with others, then what is The time to act on ourselves by force love. How? First

warming the heart, the energy center of the heart is a key factor as it comes, appropriately stimulated by formulas of suggestion and exercises, in the current universal energy, must be constantly trained and cared for. Virtually

need, especially if you downloaded and disaffected, full of enthusiasm for the little things, as long as you enter the current positive and creative energy: the first hurdle to overcome is this, rise from apathy, negativity and lack of motivation by any means: there are different psychophysical techniques, from breathing to the formulas of autosuggestion.

But there is another very effective way, to the problems of others deeply interested in the physical and psicomentale with the idea of \u200b\u200bactive participation. When you go to those who are suffering most of us, if you truly act with the logic of the heart, you feel very intense emotions and feelings and rewarding.

Attention to mind! This should play only the coordinated operation of energy that is released from the heart and not the usual role of critic, and speculative computer that finally makes you feel more alone, helpless and depressed. The mind, even if you develop the knowledge, is sterile if it does not allow for fear or for some other reason to jump in activity, in doing something.

If you understand the needs, sufferings and needs of your neighbor, you're then on your way to hear you made, you go though, it should be said at once, in a logic of feelings, thoughts and behaviors that require some sacrifice.

But the energy must be expressed in all in cell shape from person to person, from thought to thought, from action to action, from small to big things.

For example, in the love affair, when one of them, or both, he is tired, stressed or discouraged, the bond becomes binding and heavy ground for disputes, arguments and misunderstandings very often, it depletes the emotional drive and passion that women considered essential to the duration of the relationship, knowing that with time it undergoes a transformation that is necessary to understand and follow, is not sexual desire but it accentuates the struggle for "power."

born urgent the need for autonomy and independence, feels the need to establish with clarity, decisiveness and determination and showed their well-being will always safeguarding certain liberties but their feelings.

When you get to this state of tension is the case for thinking that karma wants to pass a key piece of evidence to continue the evolutionary path in this era of soul consciousness: the awareness and the victory over selfishness that puts every feeling of understanding and love.

Love, is now clear, must be born in a heart and a mind free autonomous and independent.

We all feel entitled to not be influenced by others, whoever they are, the need is most felt in our time, just ask any woman and every man evolved enough to be told that their highest aspiration is to feel free and independent. E 'is therefore logical that these identity crises arise that put a little' fear tough strong ties that have gone through hard times and hard, suddenly wobble, run down, lose their certainty and security but reveal the false basis on which steady, there feels foreign, and sometimes enemies.

But why in the lives of several people mature they occur at the end "health events"?

The reason is very deep love for the birth and development of force requires that the person is independent and self-imposed and the link with anyone, especially with your partner, total understanding, acceptance patient, on the consideration and respect the needs, tastes and desires of others.

We are all worlds in their own right with its own laws, the only, I say the only form of access, the key to get in, and understanding and love, which gives the solution to every problem in every conflict and misunderstanding.

are words that you read about these texts seriously or feel utter the great leaders of humanity living but do not have much value, until they are made with conviction and courage and humility in practice. Then there is the feeling of living in another dimension, more real and concrete, at the beginning a bit 'strange, but then more and more compelling for unexpected results that may occur in terms of vitality, enthusiasm and creativity to live for the moment this becomes a spontaneous creation.

not only in romantic relationships, which are karmically the most delicate and very important because they require a continuous exchange of energy and commitment, we must develop the strength to love, but also in relations with others in the family and work, friendships and knowledge.

Each clash is an opportunity not to miss in order to deepen the relationship with oneself and to fully express the energy as love and understanding acceptance.

The annoying neighbor, the family more difficult, the co-worker indifferent or hysterical, the rude shopkeeper, the citizen who tries to move forward in the file or car that makes a wrong move, are the daily collection of all more or less instinctive reactions that create discontent and anger.

Who wants to grow, it must consider all that happens in the context of everyday life, as an opportunity to verify their hours of consciousness, the ability of acceptance and understanding, and readiness to forgive its limitations and shortcomings.

the bond is large and is more independent and tempted to laziness or lack of interest or habit of not treating and regulating the inner reactions critical to the balance staff.

When a motorist cuts you the wrong way with a risky maneuver, you tell him a dirty word accompanied by a significant gesture and go into oblivion, when a colleague asks you a bad deed, you drink it down for a quiet life and so on; all reactions in everyday life, if not made aware of, certainly not working in the subconscious to make us calm, on the contrary, they end up sapping the sense of belonging to a suffering humanity.

What do we live, I live the other people that annoy us.

It is therefore not just discard the attitude of these tests of character, we should take to ensure awareness of the limits of our sensitivity, our availability of natural or irritability in the depths of our consciousness and dissolve anger, resentment, and then act according to common sense, with his feet on the ground but always appealing to the logic of the heart. The important thing is not to get involved with low feelings of hatred and rancor or resentment and contempt, because these are the forces which open the soul to mistrust, and indifference to the negativity and act as heavy weights to the inner life of each .

So the opportunities to experience the cosmic love, brotherhood and harmony, first with yourself and then others are infinite in every moment of the day, it's up to us, to our sensibilities, our creativity and experience to recognize them.

The difference between a person who understands and implements this effort with an ideal of life and that leaves the reactions come and go the way of life hectic and stressful, is one: the first is serene, always willing to understand living , to apologize and act with courtesy and excellent heat with anyone in any situation, the second is acidic, always aggressive, dissatisfied and unhappy negative, does not understand that the world is like a mirror reflects what we have inside us.

is just to ask if it is not worth developing in our hearts and engagement exercises with the cosmic force of love to strengthen our balance psicofisicomentale and the ability to go to the next meeting.

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considerations and reflections on romantic relationships

considerations and reflections on romantic relationships


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not only in everyday conversations among people of every age and sex, friends and acquaintances, work colleagues but also in the television programs of all national and private television, in newspaper articles and magazines of all kinds is being debated this issue which arises from the experience of suffering: once to a certain point in married life or just in romantic relationships will acknowledge that he / she is no longer suited to the type of relationship, the expectations that were feeding at the beginning: he / she is prevented from damage and to their growth (personal) spiritual, peace, balance, to the pleasure that a person is expected to reach in a report by two, if he aims high, or is of more practical obstacle to personal interests and selfish, freedom to do what Like that of most uncomplicated, if you have aspirations very common and mediocre.

consequences of this state of mind are anger and discomfort, negativity and thrust, the instinctive impulse to leave the mate for another person more akin in their aspirations and closer to its ideals.

This finding is so common and obvious that it makes us think seriously, at least on first impression, which is hard to find pairs in harmony and even makes us wonder whether you can meet the right person to enjoy the joys of love. E ', however, a very negative reflection.

Now we try to understand what lies behind this fact so obvious and frequent.

First of all, dear reader, must understand the type of relationship you have with the person who creates obstacles and impediments: there is always a karmic to consider, that we attract like magnets always the people with whom we had to do in past lives and we chose ourselves at the moment of reincarnation to meet on balance debits and credits to improve the moral and material and transforming our awareness with acceptance behavior and forgiveness. I realize that many readers or smile or take me for a naive dreamer out of reality, but it is a fair reflection that you always do.

To make sure that what we live is a karmic relationship that we chose for a reason, you can do a proof-test: if you think the person is no longer problematic for you, why not change it and you I choose another more suitable to your aspirations? If you are allowed to make such a change also exhausting, is a sign that you're mature / a for another experience, if not, that means you have to develop your other qualities of character necessary to its growth and to your (you do not grow or sinking never alone).

When you have completed those features required by your innermost being, then you get what you want most in harmony with yourself, otherwise you meet the same difficulties, the same experiences of suffering and discomfort until you have overcome with the knowledge and availability and I would say with love. This is the law of evolution.

Once you understand this, you can start the real work on yourself, the work of liberation from the constraints and dependencies.

The work can begin, for example, already during the discussions and occasional arguments in your couple relationship where it is important that you are alert and pay attention to what you feel to instinctive reactions, seen objectively as possible (otherwise will only strengthen your opposition and aggression, in a word, your egotism) to understand what is bothering you, what principles, opinions and aspects of your character is attacked or challenged by your partner and gain consciousness. This initial exercise Observation and attention is not always possible to run the same because it depends on the degree of involvement and anger that exists in those moments, but still needs to be done after a moment's pause.

If you do this exercise with serene objectivity and with a desire to find harmony in yourself and in your report, you'll see some aspect of your character is not very positive and perhaps unknown to you until then. Porto

an example from the stories of experiences of good friends and confidential, Francesca and Antonio, and Francis says: in many of the usual arguments-debates on trivial, I notice that when my partner / husband accuses me and attacks me with harshness and severity, with a spirit of aggression and sarcastic critic, to me it is natural to do the same thing, but not out of spite, or rather by instinct more cunning and finesse: that is, be tough and rigorous, critical and aggressive bad accusing alleged or actual wrongs suffered, but I can not do that because he is stronger and abusive, so they are not free from such defects,'ve got hidden in my heart and I wake up in fear of what they make me suffer, if not try to overcome them . At this stage Franc. question is: what experience am I doing? What emotions I feel in my report? How do I feel?

And if it is not an effort to understand, beyond its psychological and spiritual life only what experiences and perceives no future prospects.

Francesca has however felt the urge to go beyond that limit and overcome negative feelings and sensations you have additional questions trying to explain why these experiences and hard to grasp what is right and wrong and recognizing the reasons for ordering.

He had the answers that have made it clear that Antonio is living the same as his torment and suffering, the same mental processes that lead to trouble and the reactions so violent and aggressive, she realized that both are closed in the same cage, chained to the defects of his personality, his own selfishness that separates them and move them away with suffering and pain, but both feel a strong desire el'anelito to awaken the heart and soul and to express loving care for themselves and for each other / in the serene harmony, peace of heart and mind to feel free at last and full of understanding and warmth between them. They can not, if you do not change.

Francesca guessed, therefore, the need for this very important process of transforming itself and now, through the continuous exercise in situations that everyday life offers a pair, he realized that Antonio is his mirror, as she is Antonio, which reflects his image that his strengths and weaknesses, if she smiles this smiles when she is angry she is angry.

In a moment of confidence, Francesca has confessed that the experience with Antonio is the third in order of importance for the first time but because he made it clear that certain experiences in the work of improvement of one's character can not be postponed further, penalty of loss of identity and dignity, even in the previous two encountered the same difficulties that had the courage and maturity to deal with as it is doing now with Antonio.

Currently, since there are young children who need the highest availability of parents, Frank realized that his present condition of life, that is, his relationship with Antonio is the best opportunity offered to it by his karma to finally take his life in the hands of managed very spirit of awareness and responsibility. 'S full of self-confidence and energy and love is convinced that an angel from heaven to help her understand that the apparent negative qualities of her husband are the urge to understand itself to change and improve with him.

The reader will wonder if there are, and what results of this work on herself, yes, definitely, because she has realized that the suffering of the discussions and disputes, is set when you feel separated from Antonio for misunderstanding and selfishness , ie when it can not control themselves and to accept him as it is, and is not capable of understanding, balance and calm in the debate without overpowering.

Inspired by the experience of the two spouses, friends and loved ones "climbing companions," you can make some observations on their relationship that can extend to all romantic relationships: Frank understands that his current situation with Antonio best suited to develop qualities that evidently lacked: patience, availability, respect the ideas and behavior of others and also the unconditional love, the greatest feelings in an individual who loves freedom independence, respect and the intention to build up a balance also through the daily skirmishes and conflicts.

The skeptical reader might say that he is not interested in those qualities and feelings, but peace and peaceful state of mind to think about your interests too sentimental, it is certain that we "roped climbers" we expect our existence, the up to perfection for evolutionary growth: we want to be filmmakers and actors of our lives free from constraints and not just spectators.

Francesca actually awakened in him, fueled by the difficult conditions in which millions of people as an activity aware of thoughts and reflections which have led to continually ask what is the essence and meaning of their existence and the world around her and how it should be done to harmonize itself with the essence of creation, which she feels have deep affinities with the his being, in essence, acknowledged that the meeting point is the energy created with the love that pervades everything and is justly awakened in the hearts and minds by starting personal relationships. What do you mean this discussion?

difficulties, trials and challenges, conflicts and suffering are used to stimulate the search for explanations but also urge us to apply that love is acceptance, understanding and forgiveness, if a person gets in that state of being in the sanctuary of his inner life, can claim to have understood the meaning of life, however, remains a continuing need to practice these very often risking their values \u200b\u200bare not understood and even misunderstood. Opening up the energy of love pays off any misunderstandings and suffering and the joy of being a catalyst and an active element in any personal relationship. Just try it!

But not everyone has the need for spiritual elevation through the exercise of unconditional love that is the feeling that almost nothing or very little personal satisfaction for the majority of people fly "low" that is essentially a relationship is to meet the emotional needs of not being alone (solitude is actually a beast), especially nice to share experiences, to experiment with sexuality and sensuality and involvement without many limitations, because they are afraid of not being able to manage , guaranteed to feel the emotional and physical security not realizing that with time you create a subtle dependency on partners in this historic moment, however, is often shocked, then you establish a relationship of torque according to precise and tacit agreements to feel protected and justified in their opportunistic and selfish desires: economic security, to feel good without much concern, security of feelings, if any, well, if not there, you can create "masks" and you can find a way to procure outside legal relationship, but these people can deny the fundamental aspect of love: 's independence, autonomy, mental and emotional that turns into joy, freedom, respect and consideration for each other / and in, giving himself a walk together to help each other grow up free and independent.

Who has the power or the intention to solve the problems of torque and behave opportunistically, is destined to fail sooner or later, because people are especially attentive to their own selfish interests, and if not found satisfaction, after a certain time to escape. In these cases you must make a clear statement, if you put into play by asking yourself what you want from a relationship where you're going and what attitude you take towards the experiences arising from it, then you can make the case that opens the path of knowledge that makes you understand the right attitude to adopt towards yourself and towards others / e feels the urge to change to become thereby entering the type of experience described by Francesca.

There is another way to love-pleasure which would exclude any implication of moral or spiritual: to satisfy the need of affection and sexuality in a direct and instinctive: E 'married? I do not care, I like it / want it.

I talk about love and power, as sull'autoconsapevolezza growth medium together with your partner, in this case not relevant because those who are taking that road want the joy and pleasure for the taste of adventure to experience the full enjoyment of the senses and emotions of fleeting encounters and then move on to other conquests. Many men and women, at least to a certain age, they move to this level, but invariably at some point in their lives comes a disappointment sets in motion the question being: "Who am I? Who is he / she? What does sex and affection? Why this experience of suffering? What should I bring to the world?

In my experience, even the most knowledgeable people in romantic relationships, men or women, are not exempt from this law of evolution, those who resist is the most fragile and afraid of being alone and playing this game and if for some reason fails lucky to be active in some way, understand that love is not only taking but also giving.

a period not far from this part is spreading another type of behavior that I call free of all moral and mental patterns and problems that may affect or suppress a link or links to live immersed in the romantic relationships' Power-Love with pleasure and enjoyment, without any special care or moral scruples, aiming only to a fusion energy with your partner, without long-lasting emotional involvement, as in a game joyous and free. Joy and pleasure, sexuality and sensuality, lived in the present moment, spontaneous and joyful moments as a living free from commitments to increase awareness, at the end are also growing. This behavior is different from the past where there is involvement and cooling instinctive level of the senses.

studying directly in people who practice it, I have seen that is so typical of a mentality and culture of the East, not tied to moral and spiritual commitments Western instinct tends to lighten the weight of karma and the constraints that may ensue. It 's a good thing in this era of renewal, but is unlikely to last very long at least in our Western society they are born of concrete daily requests moral and material security.

The conduct described are quite common as to be able to speak of categories, but in reality there are many nuances in the conception and practice of love for those individuals. Everyone can do what he wants, provided it does not lack appreciation and respect for others, the will to walk together and to build a relationship with dedication, sacrifice and joy. Indeed, the differences in the field of love are highly challenging, if considered as grounds for deepening and improving yourself.

At this point the case is to give some tips to maximize a relationship in conscious and to acquire all the qualities described above.

The great love must be built consciously self-esteem, recognition and acceptance of their own and others' faults and virtues. Understanding is good that this is accompanied by the awareness that almost all the emotional ties are meetings called for by destiny and not random. In fact, you can suffer from misunderstandings and conflict or you can meet happy and positive situations, which give satisfaction and contentment. Even the great Love is the result of deliberate work that gives important results, including the true ownership, however, reports "normal" are intended to be depleted over time, even if you do not use all possible strategies suggested by true love, unless that there are very deep karmic reasons that often push hard to experiences of physical and moral suffering. The other

/ a is a part of yourself, what inspires you with his behavior and his acting is your fuel, he / she is the spark that lit the awakening a world of thoughts, emotions and feelings that belong only to you (and your karma). These processes should be enlightened and made aware through thought, which is the only true possession and to allow the passing of any sense of dissatisfaction and of separateness from the other and from life.

If you have not yet reached 40-45 years, (policy limit) it is good experience to end your romantic relationships, brings into play all of you to try to discover the healthy eating instinct and desire and it is good Developing self-awareness to understand that the quality of relationships, comparing the external reality with your inner world. However, if you've exceeded this limit of age, but you did these experiences and you know well, then it should work on conscious and unconscious reactions that the other / a you raise, so that you can build a relationship in which the relationship with yourself must be based a great self-esteem and security, as it forms the basis from which comes love.

E 'vital that you take away the fear of not being appreciated / loved ae / ae of not being up to meet each other / a in every sense; what is true is to penetrate into yourself every moment with love and acceptance . The relationship with the other is the consequence than you are inside.

always chosen as the person "in love with love", can create new relationships, harmonious, full of enthusiasm and joy, to be an effective instrument of love with anyone (for the healthy assessment will serve as a guide) and feel constantly in the creative flow. The person who enters into relationship with you will feel fully involved and rewarded, you will become the deepest and more sure of his conscience, t'incontrerà constantly in his thoughts and feelings, emotions and actions, as his loyal and reliable guide. This is

the love that gives life, it is possible for those who are striving to renew a relationship or multiple relationships, with perseverance and determination, enthusiasm and satisfaction. Thereby escape the influences of past karma and create new bonds conscious, such as to provide a positive and profound sense of satisfaction and fulfillment in life.


You can make the case that a person feels that the path traced here is suited to his feelings, but that does not have the forces necessary to begin the journey, then he can resort to this type of exercise based on autosuggestions (self-therapy) or self-assertion that will certainly give you the right energy:

1) I'm going to reach a more complete independence even sentimental; are decided / ae sure about regaining my inner freedom by developing the highest respect and consideration for myself a.

2) I'm fine, I feel good, my body and my mind are in good health, vigor and efficiency to achieve balance and harmony with myself and with others.


3) deal with events and daily reports as an opportunity to strengthen our will to feel peaceful / a, unsatisfied with what I am and what I do and free / from any conditioning.


4) I'm going more and more developing acceptance, respect and esteem for myself with, and great confidence in my abilities and potential; I feel calm / a joyful / a, creative / ae sure about all that love me.


5) No one can belittle my dignity as a person or stifle my desire to love free / peaceful ae / a.


6) I open my heart and my mind to the warm energy of love, are increasingly positive / a, available and active / in the acceptance and understanding why it all makes sense, so I'm relaxed / confident ae / a .



7) I live my life with enthusiasm and appreciate every moment, strengthen me in positivity, optimism, joy of living and loving life with conscious balance.


8) I am more free from any dependence and conditioning of people and situations, are open / a, helpful and confident / a in the positive energy and full of life / a hope for a favorable destiny.


9) Every event and situation is also bad for me the opportunity to develop courage and enterprise, security, confidence and enthusiasm.


NB The formulas should be recited, very naturally, 15-20 times once or twice a day. Anyone who decides to help choose those that best suit its current internal situation and then continue with the others.




PS Before sending this monthly article for publication on the blog, listening to a morning program (Rai 1), I felt very exciting news that in England people, especially married couples, and solid and confirmed by the time they no longer have sexual desire.

In the commentary to the news has triggered Italian sexologist dr. Chiara Simonelli, which interviewed the driver Luca Juror, not only confirmed this situation in Italy but also added a rather disconcerting news for Italian men (we always talk about men bound in stable couples), which are often the wives who come physicians for advice in order to return to their sexual desire men ask if they can give them the drugs Viagra or equivalent, but almost all physicians respond that the lack of desire can not be solved with Viagra, there is a deeper cause of physical, mental and spiritual nature.

try to understand the causes of this problem with multiple meanings: apart from the physical causes that can be traced to a poor diet with too much food rich in hormones, so no more healthy and natural, and a lack of natural physical activity, an 'other contributory factor is the fullness of emotion and curiosity, because we are bombarded by erotic images, nudity and sexual scenes of any kind that have destroyed the mystery of sexuality burning taste of discovery and conquest of the object of desire, but I think the most important cause of that lack of desire to seek a spiritual level, ie, in this historical period, so-called conscious soul, you may notice that certain rigid patterns of thought and behavior have become commonplace in traditional no value and no longer meet the real needs;

how can you even think that man should take the initiative sexually, the woman is more passive, that sex should be done in the traditional way ....? common experience in romantic relationships and daily highlights and other needs other ways of satisfaction, it is sufficient to read journals in female subjects, hear and see television programs or know directly from experience, if you are still willing to seek excitement.

Omitting the answers can be given individually to the problem, you can breathe new species of couples in relationships, renewal, freedom, independence, processing too rigid patterns of behavior, you feel the need to break ties binding to hear the voice of instinct and the impulse to experiment on their own.

In any area where there is a relationship between people leads to new demands, new ways of contact, relationships, and this is why it is often said, "Do not you understand more of people! "and there are more than security, the stability of feelings that the traditional sort of values \u200b\u200band behaviors and ensured that we would hide behind to justify certain attitudes.

Now the individual, man or woman, must have the courage to pick up their lives, creating a time when his relations, his relationships at all levels to carry out his plans and desires, dreams and aspirations with awareness , imagination and creative drive with a new method which requires great self-confidence, love for oneself and for others and for life with its infinite richness of emotions and feelings and created a more authentic morality. In

Search this woman is always the dominant and therefore inspires a certain fear the man who is unable to renew itself.

Unfortunately we are still strongly influenced by false ideas and values \u200b\u200babout the true meaning of love, that we propinano the media bombarding us with sexual and emotional patterns very trivial and devoid of conceptual content valid for spiritual growth: only physical attraction , erotic fantasy, tastes and pleasures instinctual level, jealousy, possession and competition, which means absolute freedom and passion dependence and other conditioning / a, all of which exceed the time and destroys the evidence of those relationships that are shipwrecked after a short time because it lacks mental clarity and authenticity in them the values \u200b\u200bthat should be the basis for real relationships in the push to grow developmentally. It 'hard to hear of understanding, acceptance and awareness or read definitions and views of a spiritual value on love, no account is taken of the fact that there are other aspects which unite two people in an authentic and binding capacity for renewal.

E 'should list a few: intellectual interests, cultural and working for a spiritual affinity with aging, a similar approach to life common in the positive aspects: fun, friends and travel, etc. .. and the negative aspects: moral solidarity in suffering, diseases and harsh experience, willingness to sacrifice and renunciation.

physical sexual attraction, in fact, goes much resized and placed in its proper light. Some people understand it as a policy response to the chemical and physical energy: it is as if you were at the first meeting in their turn, at the biological level, an excitement of the senses and instinct to possess and aggressiveness. Other

admit to feel in the presence of attractive men or women, as an awakening of energy in the genitals. We are definitely on another level. This attraction, taken in isolation, is not love: it can only be the beginning of a relationship that could also end after sexual experiences, if there is willingness and interest to build a satisfying relationship, however, should be made aware of and supported by higher values: intelligence and sensitivity, love and creativity, otherwise, when this push to instinctive attraction runs out, you attends a resounding failure of a couple's relationship, like wise people expect and expect.

Who Love lives capable of renewing and revitalizing one or more relationships with perseverance and determination, overcome any obstacle and also any conditioning of past karma, creating new bonds to make sense of conscious positive life.

And then there is to do a very light thrust and futuristic (and many readers will smile more ...): there is no suggestion in esoteric circles that the human being must become androgynous, that absorb in itself the two aspects of male and female sexuality as well as being spiritually complete in itself, unique, independent and self-employment? Could it be that lack of a desire to prepare such an eventuality?

However, I will return the result of observations in a very long time to answer the question that is most at heart: "There may be a relationship peaceful, constructive and rewarding based on love without sex?

While acknowledging that many people have the problem no longer feel physical attraction and sexual desire to the partner are of different ages and conditions, and live real drama, because they do not feel normal and feel the fear of being betrayed / abandoned ee / and or to leave the partner a, in general, I would say yes, there are, in fact, many couples who continue to love in the highest sense of the word, after several years of living together and working to transform conscious, no longer feel the impulse sexual addiction. This may mean that they have exceeded for various reasons (leave aside the causes of disease, because not having sex does not mean it passed), including the sublimation of desire and the depletion of instinctual drive or who follow a discipline to which the act, not instinctive, it becomes the culmination of a process psicofisicomentale aware.

This behavior depends also on the very personal nature, that is identified by the profound nature of the day of birth and the position of Lilith. There are people, in fact, that employees are dall'istintualità sexual life and their own need to express their physical, emotional and mental load, hard to beat. They work or have to work to sublimate and do not turn off or suppress the instinct, and others, because they have never heard conditioning in a sexual addiction, or the experience normally with age, that is strong in his youth, weaker in older age. It 'clear that the latter is easier to reach, perhaps after some inner work of transformation, to give love a tender, affectionate and protective.

there to do another consideration: the sexual aspect of a pair depends on the karmic relationship that exists between the two. Some women have confided that, after the conception of children, have completely stopped sexual relations with their spouse. From investigations made following the regression therapy (auditing), others have found that their last link with the current partner was a parent-daughter. This explains, therefore, "love-protection" and "love-esteem" with great awe and respect for spouses and partners in search of the ideal model of paternal behavior, it also explains the need for some women "escapades" lived with the spirit of adventure typical of a daughter who is acting contrary to the obligations imposed by his father.

To conclude: it is possible to live a great love even without sexual involvement provided that there is a communion of thoughts and feelings. respect and esteem, interests and life goals.

Gradients in romantic relationships, as in others, are simply endless, that as many as there are individuals.

How To Reset Manhattan

[From "A Lesson from stew"] Final Message

Final Message


last session of play, can not be delayed due to personal commitments of Laura, before asking questions on current issues, as we did in the second half of the book, we heard the final message to Stew this series of meetings, which we believe should precede any discussion of topics relating to the individual developmental growth.

For its content is stimulating, full of hopes and expectations, to break once and for all the chain individual selfishness, is the invitation to breathe deeply the universal life energy that circulates throughout and in all, the only way to make us feel really citizens of the universe, common to all the brothers involved and influenced by humans same material and spiritual problems.

This vital energy is the "cosmic love" that everyone should customize to fully express it in everyday life.


The cosmic love allows you to feel the public not only the earth but the entire universe, is the life force that expresses itself in the sunlight, the sun shines in the cosmos and on earth, incessantly, illuminates and warms everything: mud, water, wilderness, trees, animals and humans, good and bad, without distinction.

Its light and its energy are a gift, and who understands and strives to live in him, he knew the magic secret of all reliable and fast individual growth.

The big job that every individual should do, already young, is to embrace the meaning of cosmic love and try to make it happen.

not easy, however, warns Stewo, hold it, because it makes you enter a specific logic of thoughts and behaviors that require sacrifices.

How do you arouse in your hearts and your minds? The first step to do, which is essential, is an act of faith to embrace the power of cosmic love-enter into his logic: if you understand pain, suffering, needs and requirements of your neighbor, you're on your way to live and carry out this ideal.

Ti refines the tendency to sacrifice and the ability to understand where to intervene with your little action, to interpret the silence of those who have courage to speak, but it also means losing out most of the time.

If this energy to penetrate global, understand all facets of the needs of your neighbor and you get close to anyone in the right way.

This is the key that opens all doors to the most important secrets, it is great wisdom, which is like a precious stone set in a fabric of basic truth, we must never forget that basic: understanding, awareness, acceptance and love of self and other active , the latter species is the essence of wisdom more profound, as otherwise it is embedding precious stones in a frayed fabric that supports them.

The evolutionary growth is closely linked to the understanding and the suffering, pain, size for someone new, but essential. Do not accept the limitations caused by disease in a spirit of forbearance, cut oneself off from the opportunity to understand the infinite resources hidden in our body. And reject such negative experiences, hoping to pass quickly and do not live it fully, is to miss important opportunities for growth, and there are not many.

The experience of pain, physical limitations and mental health, the fight against the clock or situations or people who oppose your sense of justice is an important test that highlights your confidence that a disease, a situation may move or change, if you are firmly convinced of the success: the result is an interplay of opposing forces, the player who has faith that something is his, who has the mental strength that dominates all inner obstacles and then the exterior, but there must first assess the evidence.

However you must never forget that karma as determining force, is king, associating themselves with positive or negative energy we carry several incarnations, are the lights and shadows that follow you in every moment of your life. In certain situations because of perceived insurmountable obstacles in the way while others seem to be clearing. What does then the cosmic love?

energy is more concentrated and of course love the stronger, the group is the ideal condition to strengthen it, because it is an amount of mental energy that helps to resolve correctly oriented, consistent with the Karma overcoming difficult situations also very important evidence.

You must never lose sight of the guidelines of your growth, punctuated by increasingly important tests: loneliness, hopelessness, discouragement, and others.

Energy in love must be expressed in all cell shape, from person to person, from thought to thought, action by acting positively, from small to big things.

Life itself is made up of small things, small tiles, which form a fine woven mosaic of suffering and pain, which they mature and grow those that experience, but it goes on between shots left and right, which we becomes more conscious. If a person is rather distracted, without ideals, without the faith that "moves mountains" with his head in the clouds, will experience the events, will not appreciate what life gives her, it will be a life without a clear identity.

should fight for the mind to soak active energy with all its resources to achieve its objectives in a determined and strong.

You knowing how to reload with meditation, with exercises of self-suggestion, but especially by force love, even with that of others, who help you the feeling of fullness, satisfaction, when, believing strongly in yourself and your ideas, you get the feeling of walking blindly towards your goal, as on a shaky ground with the deep faith but never collapses.

If you do not have this energy, you will find that your achievements are devoid of stability and value, exposed to storms of life and negativity.

not think that everything goes smoothly, even when challenging the power of cosmic love, because you will be subjected to the fire of negative energy, fear and mistrust, obstacles and changes of mind, physical debilitation and even personal interests, lack of time, ability and desire to lacking. Attention then to the great friend-enemy, the time, because the chance that you happen at that moment, never returned, now belongs to history, for this stimulus will always live in the fleeting moment when you realize your ideals. By doing so you will understand what it means eternity, you have to try it with your work, otherwise they are just beautiful and fascinating talk.

The strength of the group, consisting also of two people, then it is essential for the solution of problems of its individual components, because the energy that circulates greatly facilitates the exchange of mutual aid and advice, which will be targeted, disinterested and fraternal , since they stem from a deep truth to live together, a joint effort of self-conscious.

E 'as the model of a community in which increasingly large the individual feels protected and helped to work for his and others' well.

The company will be so far in the future, "says Stew, then you should prepare from now practicing a form of group therapy that encourages mutual trust, promotes growth, increases energy, particularly using the prayers (transmission energy) to help those in need.

result is a strong consciousness, capable of raising high-level beauty that is peace, understanding and harmony in harmony means having a living consciousness, which has energy, positive thinking, which transforms negativity into positivity, that does not lose sight of their objective, that helps people around to achieve them, every one needs a point of arrival, otherwise it will activate the forces that are evolving.

Each goal reached is a step, a step of a ladder of individual growth, because those fossilized or stops, it is not intended to move forward: will be in a terrible condition.

The joining of forces of minds and aimed at a target, means winning, coming to realize: forming groups with the same intentions and feel strong and protected as in impregnable fortresses.


Stewo in May 2001 has wanted to close this first round of communications with a message that focuses on deep meaning of life in relation to the hardest events of this year.



"Life is a continuous opportunity for" mutual aid "and who has not learned yet not understood the full meaning.

The most tangible expression of this reality manifests itself in the relationship father / mother / son and in the help / love that they give themselves.

The combination of blood is only the choice of a karmic life, this life, we are all sons and fathers and we all, that is those experiences that we will live or want to share with anyone.

The "mutual aid / assistance" to the next is based on its equivalence: I and the other are the same thing.

My energy plus the energy of the other is the amount of energy, or cosmic energy.

Who does not perform the act at the right time to help, love and understanding breaks the circuit of energy, causing a hole in the sky of cosmic enter through which the demonic forces of selfishness, fear, indifference hate ... ..... "