COMMUNICATION
Some thoughts on the issue and felt more characteristic of our times
Some thoughts on the issue and felt more characteristic of our times
When it comes to communication, we immediately think of immediately Two different types of transmission of thoughts, opinions, emotions and feelings but interdependent relationship between the individuals in different fields of life, personal relationships, friendship, work and social environments in which there is direct involvement of the person with his lived experience, his education, his cultural and developmental level, his feelings (likes and dislikes), so we think that communication should be required to meet the social and human sense of an exchange of experiences and the the information service due to citizens by the media to update them, often in real time, on the vicissitudes of the news, economic-financial, social, political, climatic, but also shows and sport worldwide.
Today communicate seems to be the most important function, we agree but we must see all sides and discover more hidden and insidious tool that makes it dangerous to report.
We stop the appearance of direct communication between individuals : is very easy to misunderstand a communicative message because every word each of the parties often gives a different meaning from that of the vocabulary, given his experience that includes experience, level cultural and spiritual way of life etc ... and often very different from that of another, so if you are not aware of these, you risk major species in the personal friendships and social relationships where misconceptions and misunderstandings can arise.
Another important aspect is the way a word is uttered, the way it raises , that is the spirit in which it is called, jokingly, in fact, mocking, serious or just light and gossip, in fact, the interpretation of how is the most difficult and dangerous.
At this point we must bring some examples: I happened to witness a conversation between friends, Max and Gabriel, who spoke of their friend, Daniel, Massimo spirit loose and light (as opposed to its normal mode of being and express serious and respectful) has some findings that may seem harsh judgments on the environment and application: - Daniela have sex with X? accompanying the application with the usual ambiguous gesture.
Gabriel, who still has some doubts about Daniela, interprets these findings and the application as an adverse opinion in regards to her so, too at that particular time, understanding of the event and fell into crisis because it feels like a confirmation of his doubts; in fact, still does not approve some of his behavior, does not agree with certain choices in life and does not accept the company he keeps. When he is a clarification of the three, because they are very attached to fraternal and sincere friendship, become aware of misinterpretation of the words because they realize the factors that have influenced the way they express themselves and try and come back with more affection to the usual feelings of friendship. Their words are significant:
-In those moments we were gripped by a feeling of lightness with which we could justify even the most reprehensible act of one man's betrayal .
can bring many other examples that do understand how to catch the "double" (see blog in October and November 2008), that the experiences that accompany us from previous lives, which discharge all their sufferings, fears, disappointments and anger with words and opinions often stroncanti on anyone when the opportunity presents itself, that is, when you communicate with a spirit of controversy or negative and superficial, it is the case that the judgments that one expresses, reads mirror who is the source.
It 'clear that the person who lives in the awareness has control over words and thoughts and feelings that cause them, but must always have in mind the level and type of partner that has before it, but unfortunately this is the unexpected, the dark side that determines the direction and outcome of communication.
days ago I spoke with an acquaintance of an issue of great importance in these times: love, in reference the romantic relationships of some mutual friends that often deteriorate and end up in quarrels and separations, there are plenty of examples species publicized by the media.
I carried out a speech at a high level in the sense that gave meaning to the word love as an act of self-giving, after accepting understood and respected in their dignity and identity of a person. At some point I realized the answers and statements of my interlocutor that my interlocutor gave it a meaning very different from mine: sexual involvement, ownership and jealousy, conflict and conflict of personalities that all aspects, several negative common and instinctive feeling that high, what I said I was totally misrepresented and misunderstood.
can bring many other examples that do understand how to catch the "double" (see blog in October and November 2008), that the experiences that accompany us from previous lives, which discharge all their sufferings, fears, disappointments and anger with words and opinions often stroncanti on anyone when the opportunity presents itself, that is, when you communicate with a spirit of controversy or negative and superficial, it is the case that the judgments that one expresses, reads mirror who is the source.
It 'clear that the person who lives in the awareness has control over words and thoughts and feelings that cause them, but must always have in mind the level and type of partner that has before it, but unfortunately this is the unexpected, the dark side that determines the direction and outcome of communication.
days ago I spoke with an acquaintance of an issue of great importance in these times: love, in reference the romantic relationships of some mutual friends that often deteriorate and end up in quarrels and separations, there are plenty of examples species publicized by the media.
I carried out a speech at a high level in the sense that gave meaning to the word love as an act of self-giving, after accepting understood and respected in their dignity and identity of a person. At some point I realized the answers and statements of my interlocutor that my interlocutor gave it a meaning very different from mine: sexual involvement, ownership and jealousy, conflict and conflict of personalities that all aspects, several negative common and instinctive feeling that high, what I said I was totally misrepresented and misunderstood.
I are then adjusted so very wise, taking into account the level of the person.
It 's the point: the word sounds as perceived by the ear, are sensitive to the expression of the inner world of a person who manifests them through its lived experience of colorful emotions and feelings and thoughts of the moment in the usual his daily life. So if you want to understand who he is and what he wants, you must listen in silence trying to break in his underwear with respect, peace and fair participation in the usual statement that every day it is prudent to first listen, especially when it comes of important issues and then say their opinions, ideas, etc ... ..
forces obstacle, Ahriman and Lucifer, are always ready to make their influence felt in relation to the developmental level of the speaker and listener, so if you want to express knowingly and if you care to make you understand clearly, you should check the Your words and the subsequent reactions of the interlocutor in order not to fall too unpleasant misunderstandings, because very often when it comes to talk about important issues involving material involved (money) or moral (opinions and ideas) come out from the unconscious experiences negative, fear, suffering and anger. What should be the primary intention a peaceful exchange of experiences and ideas, could become an occasion to vent deep and painful, resulting in litigation and dispute, and then heavily misunderstand intentions and opinions, content and behavior, you can have the impression that the conversation, begin a constructive, take another road is not required nor expected.
As regards information as public information through mass media, the question is more dangerous in the sense that as listeners we are totally passive in the face to the bombardment of news served up with art to create alarm, fear and insecurity and the sense of precariousness of life that is now regarded as nothing: fact, For example we often hear news of the fall of a plane in which hundreds of persons, whether they are Chinese, I heard a bad joke: "But what do you want to be 200 deaths for a half billion Chinese! Or, if you are of color, racism is still prevalent: a few days ago some guys near Rome attempted to burn alive an Indian interviewed friends of the guilty, one has answered: - Come on, was a Moroccan!;
It 's the point: the word sounds as perceived by the ear, are sensitive to the expression of the inner world of a person who manifests them through its lived experience of colorful emotions and feelings and thoughts of the moment in the usual his daily life. So if you want to understand who he is and what he wants, you must listen in silence trying to break in his underwear with respect, peace and fair participation in the usual statement that every day it is prudent to first listen, especially when it comes of important issues and then say their opinions, ideas, etc ... ..
forces obstacle, Ahriman and Lucifer, are always ready to make their influence felt in relation to the developmental level of the speaker and listener, so if you want to express knowingly and if you care to make you understand clearly, you should check the Your words and the subsequent reactions of the interlocutor in order not to fall too unpleasant misunderstandings, because very often when it comes to talk about important issues involving material involved (money) or moral (opinions and ideas) come out from the unconscious experiences negative, fear, suffering and anger. What should be the primary intention a peaceful exchange of experiences and ideas, could become an occasion to vent deep and painful, resulting in litigation and dispute, and then heavily misunderstand intentions and opinions, content and behavior, you can have the impression that the conversation, begin a constructive, take another road is not required nor expected.
As regards information as public information through mass media, the question is more dangerous in the sense that as listeners we are totally passive in the face to the bombardment of news served up with art to create alarm, fear and insecurity and the sense of precariousness of life that is now regarded as nothing: fact, For example we often hear news of the fall of a plane in which hundreds of persons, whether they are Chinese, I heard a bad joke: "But what do you want to be 200 deaths for a half billion Chinese! Or, if you are of color, racism is still prevalent: a few days ago some guys near Rome attempted to burn alive an Indian interviewed friends of the guilty, one has answered: - Come on, was a Moroccan!;
the human being of any race religion and civilization should be respected, regarded and protected, if you want to achieve a healthy, safe and just society.
It should also be careful design as a growing phenomenon linked to law of attraction, causing heavy consequences for mental and physical and mental spread the news of rapes and murders, robberies and assaults in the audience reinforces thoughts, feelings and emotions that the essences corresponding to the cosmic level (the universe as spread spectrum radio) and return power to the weaker minds who are adversely affected and act accordingly as you grab the rapture of imitation.
common tendency to make much news , since it would require conscious control of the content and manner of information to meet the emotional sensitivity and balance of the citizens.
Here, then, explains why recurrence of the chain, immediately after, for example, a rape, others with almost the same way in different parts of the country: one or more pairs of sweethearts against rapists in raping the girl, beat and rob the unfortunate boy.
It should also be careful design as a growing phenomenon linked to law of attraction, causing heavy consequences for mental and physical and mental spread the news of rapes and murders, robberies and assaults in the audience reinforces thoughts, feelings and emotions that the essences corresponding to the cosmic level (the universe as spread spectrum radio) and return power to the weaker minds who are adversely affected and act accordingly as you grab the rapture of imitation.
common tendency to make much news , since it would require conscious control of the content and manner of information to meet the emotional sensitivity and balance of the citizens.
Here, then, explains why recurrence of the chain, immediately after, for example, a rape, others with almost the same way in different parts of the country: one or more pairs of sweethearts against rapists in raping the girl, beat and rob the unfortunate boy.
The chronicle of these days in February is full of them.
These days there are two main aspects that we need to empower: the relationship of a personal relationship at all levels and communication is the key. The individual conscious and evolved has a duty to monitor the way to express themselves and relate to make living together more peaceful and positive, constructive and rewarding .
These days there are two main aspects that we need to empower: the relationship of a personal relationship at all levels and communication is the key. The individual conscious and evolved has a duty to monitor the way to express themselves and relate to make living together more peaceful and positive, constructive and rewarding .
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