A meeting of people: the beginning of the journey to self-discovery
Many people, especially women, express dissent in respect of their partner in making this kind of reasoning : - If at that hour of the day, that month of that year I had not found / in there, in that circumstance, I would certainly not met him / her .... So, I'd have saved / to various ailments, negative experiences, pains and disappointments, I would be now a free person with another wealth of quality experience and knowledge, I would not have suffered damage and obstacles in my path of growth, I acknowledge that ... ... ... .. has the power to disturb the peace of my heart and my mind and keep dissatisfied a.
These arguments do not refer only to the person with whom you establish a relationship, but also to other types of friendships, work, family etc ... gained
In confidential interviews that I held individually with these people: friends, acquaintances and even occasional parties, I But to say a certain level of awareness in order to understand the meaning of some difficult experiences, I often do a provocative question: - But why not come out of this unfortunate situation and you will not create a better, according to your choice desire and intention?
From the response, I understand immediately the position of the person in the karmic relationship with the other / a, if his opinions, feelings and thoughts are simply an outlet, is one thing, are required for a release and then re-accept the situation and move forward, if, instead, is behind a painful maturation, a real need, not only emotionally but vital and determined, is another, that is the sign of a long and arduous journey towards the achievement of physical, mental and spiritual independence close to finally win, missing the last stop, then it is appropriate to speak to program a work plan with a high level, first of all to make sense of experience, and the hidden meaning and purpose of this type of test and stimulus.
Very often it appears that the meeting with that person opens a chapter on old, with roots in the ancient past, particularly past life, annoying because it forces us to certain sacrifices, recognition of certain unpleasant aspects of ourselves that limit and condition our freedom.
fact, for many people, the relationship with your partner, especially if conflicting, is the moment of truth in that it begins with existential questions about the problem of being ; which means that ? It means that the suffering, anger, fear and helplessness stimulate some existential questions: - Who am I? It 's the first question that arises in the conflict to recognize and affirm our identity and dignity compels us to analyze to understand our potential desires and aspirations, our resources and our limits (overwhelmingly come to light aspects of the double), but also we ask, "Who is the other? The partner of a journey that has our own problems and that is chained or caged in our own influences and beats his head against the bars of his prison like us, if free me, free himself / herself.
Other / a acts as a mirror and a stimulus to recognize, you can not escape the rawness of the experience raises the doubts, the discomfort and fear of not being able to reach the serene harmony with oneself, the free expression of feelings, instincts and impulses, because it has to do with each other / a, indelible presence from his life (there must always be considered the kind of karmic relationship between the two: certainly are people who are treated with hatred, malice and jealousy, without respect and love and this kind of relationship is evident in the regressions to previous lives).
Then, reasoning at a higher level, you should be grateful to this kind of conflicting reports, because they finally have the chance to know each other, changing grow and mature. Who starts the journey towards self-knowledge through the experience of conflict of love, it is considered lucky because this feeling is the vital driving force of life and sooner or later you awaken in the hearts and minds of those who are sincere and available.
Other people, however, begin the journey towards self-realization going through traumatic experiences, painful sickness, unemployment, difficult family relationships and preventing the constant realization of its ideals.
The individual karma is very varied and strange, but always in favor of the awakening of, uses the most unique experiences sometimes to start a process of transformation: if we recognize, well, otherwise you will suffer, suffer and there are different ways the awareness, acceptance and love to feel fulfilled.
addition to the first existential question "Who am I? It brings other chain: - what I want? People are bewildered by the spread of consumerist values \u200b\u200bthat spur of the moment low satisfying our desires, but then leave unsatisfied beverages increasing the sense of insecurity, of disappointment that they are there to remind that the solution of problems lies in entering into themselves to understand ; is a difficult job but the only one that ensures safe end results.
However, the partner to secure quiet often in danger of reinforcing the positive aspects of the selfish nature of the other / ae when seemingly everything runs smoothly, there is the danger of abandoning the wave of unconscious impulses, the instincts which absorb the meaning of the test, the challenge is necessary for a healthy developmental path.
When, however, the mate is conflicting, the opposite of what we want, rather stimulates an obligation to enter into pushing ourselves to follow a discipline and to develop awareness and wonder: - But why me has happened to this person? What is the meaning of my life? Why do I feel deeply familiar with those feelings aroused in me and that annoyed me so much? Is not that the selfishness and jealousy, hardness, and misunderstanding and malice, the desire of annihilation that I see and feel he / she has a certain resemblance to what I feel deep in my soul? Why not is fair to attribute the cause of our problems only to others without acknowledging at least our minimum cost.
In moments of truth, subsequent to painful experiences, I get flashes of lucidity: -I will be free, I will have peace in heart and mind, you can experience all the tenderness, love warm and loving and unconditional only when I have full mastery of me, of all the reactions in conscious and legs that move in me and I'll always be in my self.
But I must make a finding real and sincere: although I can often get into this state of grace where I feel at peace and harmony with everyone and everything, I'm always missing something I'm giving me the full assurance of being : in fact, than it can get in tune with other / to recognize all the positive aspects of his character, I realized that what I desire in my heart and I mental configuration with respect to a particular person, does not really exist outside of me, except a small part but is strongly rooted in my ideal part that I can only imagine it is my part-divine ideal.
This leads me to conclude that the ideal perfect love we all seek out in others, only exists within us.
The highest wisdom is to recognize and live within us as love, altruism, respect for ourselves and help spiritual automatically projected onto the next.
Then the tenderness, fidelity, trust and willingness to make others happy will arise naturally from our hearts.
E 'useless then complain the consequences of that encounter took place in that country, in that city, in that place at that hour of the day for that month of that year!
And then you have to get used to consider the karmic aspects of a relationship with a person, from surveys made the technique of past-life regression on individuals of different levels of development, is provided that there was already a meeting in a previous life with that person and states that this current is given to both people involved the opportunity to retrieve the report, ie to make it balanced, satisfying and constructive. In this perspective, the discussion expands, there may be real and complete answers to specific questions about why there is no harmony in a relationship : - Why you treat me badly and make me suffer for its hardness and insensitivity, rigor and bad, for his scathing reviews in every situation?
But do not you think that you had towards him / her the same behavior? What you have done this suffering? The law of karma is the law of cause and effect of retaliation, justice, blind and brutal, but it is the divine force that helps us to recover love with what we need to get to perfection.
are no consoling words and formal, they hide the secret of life continues to grow through the trials and challenges that, once understood, allow you to climb up, to improve and achieve balance serenity and harmony.
who follows the path of love, begins his journey but also from a rickety relationship becoming aware of advances, advances ... forever.
I have learned through painful experience that every meeting in my life, even the most seemingly banal and random, and has had an important meaning: awaken the consciousness that any other person is like me, has the same problems, aspirations, desires and limits and a thousand obstacles like me.
Sometimes I still get angry, I vent to evil words, I question the deeper truths and obvious with the pleasure of transgression, but in the end my tempter devil (twice) looks at me, smiles at me, throws his mask and says, - I know that the more you stir up rebellion, transgression and aggression towards those species will be more closer, more in the end prevail in your heart and your mind to accept the forgiveness and love.
For evidence that the more constructive and effective for at least feel happy and content, sometimes serene, both acceptance and understanding of each situation and relationship, just look around among those friends or acquaintances or colleagues or neighbors or others who do not try at least once to be well disposed towards the needs of even the other strange, to see that they are always dissatisfied and angry, nervous and negative, discontented and aggressive or apathetic and lacking in interest and I would say that warmth and enthusiasm are words every now and see some reason for living the good life.
sometimes be necessary to test to see if it truly deserves consideration the effort to accept them as they are objectively and recognize our negative aspects that should be modified that is our shared responsibility in the situation we find ourselves .
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