active love (part 2)
It seems right to resume the topic covered in the previous active love, which have been described in some psychological characteristics of women that may affect the romantic relationships, and only briefly mention a few men. Now is the time to describe more fully the psychological differences between men and women that reflect badly, air conditioners, in relations not only romantic relationships but in general, reporting as a citation, some pages 97-100 of my book "Love and Sexuality aware " ed. The Age of Aquarius.
"It is a cliché the statement:" The man is different from the woman, "because there are real differences, not only physically, of course, but especially from the standpoint of physical and mental. In fact, there are real differences, some due to family education, the cultural influences of society and the historical times in which we live are the most obvious feature roles, qualities and attitudes, ways of assessing priorities, the essential things for their own physical and spiritual, and now show a careful look at interpersonal relationships.
Man gives importance at the forefront in power, knowledge in every field, skill and efficiency in the attempt to achieve certain results. Consciously or unconsciously put to the test in all areas, sexual and family, work and relationships, to show himself to "be", that they have a sense of self in relation to the capacity to reach a goal and success. Therefore, the interest of practical things (except many exceptions), outdoor activities and sports to engage in or watch as a viewer of television programs or as a traveler in Internet search technology with the latest news: fast cars, super-fast computers and all the objects that facilitate the achievement of its goals. When
follows, particularly with efforts and sacrifices, the expected results, is comfortable with himself and expresses pride, feels autonomous and efficient, competent and qualified to handle the power.
This aspect plays an important role in the relationship with the woman because, in case you are called into question his ability, and intelligence, he falls into crisis, no longer feels useful to her to solve problems, feel rejected in what it can give with confidence, considered to be unnecessary.
But he does not understand that the only effective aid that can give her, and listened with sympathy and interest, because the woman does not need much of solution to be "heard."
This substantial difference in psicomentale is one of many contributing factors in a marriage crisis, because when there is no shared understanding, mutual interest and willingness to understand and to listen, falls on the emotional and sexual desire, especially if relationships last a long time.
She however, considers the values \u200b\u200bof primary importance, Love, feelings and emotions inspired by the beauty, the friendly relations that challenge us to communicate their problems and his own feelings. Is accomplished through participation in expressing emotions and feelings in a relationship, even friendship. The reports of all kinds will enable it to share it with others of their mood, feelings and emotions and does so much more than achieve success or reach a goal of power (there are many exceptions). In speaking and communicating an expression of solidarity, protection and love, is like a therapeutic act for her: giving and receiving help.
The woman is very sensitive to the improvement of himself and his spiritual growth (which is why in all activities aimed at improving and deepening the self, prevailing number of women) and willingness to give much attention to the feelings and problems of others.
The woman in these prerogatives is precisely the opposite of man, for him to receive aid is not required, it is an insult, because it highlights the lack of confidence in his abilities, feels incompetent, incapable and weak; nothing more offensive to hear him give unsolicited advice, which sounds like a reproach and a recognition of its inefficiency. The woman psychologically wrong when he tries to help her man to mature, if that does not want, as if to tell him that is not working well.
It 'clear that these differences relate men and women who belong to mediocrity and who follow the way of life and conduct policy, inspired by the canons of normality flatter, obvious and conventional.
The speech is different for those who tend to know each other and improve the awareness of its limitations, then the boundaries between male and female qualities will greatly expand and merge. This explains why we experience more and more women are "masculine, independent, determined and aggressive, especially sexually, full of initiative, free and eager for self-at any cost, on the contrary, there are men," women's "weakest psicomentalmente, always on the defensive , fearful of losing power in sexual relationships with women, but also more responsive to the needs of transformation and improvement, specific to women.
This reality must be considered more and more obvious positive because times require new effort by everyone to raise awareness, understanding and acceptance beyond the gender differences. The human being as a whole spiritual ego is so asexual, when communicating at the level of awareness, and spiritually, there are more differences. While recognizing the value of certain cognitive character of truth, and not just evolutionary, they all agree, men and women arise difficulty only put them into practice, because each person acts according to his experience and his role and his karma come out, then, the sexual differences that affect attitudes and opinions. "
After reading the description of the psychological characteristics of men and women (that anyone can integrate its experience), I hope you understand better the job you can do on themselves because, I repeat, the problem of love with a partner is something very important, that covering the full growth of personality to understand each other understand who we are in relation to the mystery is more challenging that satisfying and rewarding it can reveal.
Thus, "the requirement of being" claimed by everyone, man or woman, willpower and the constant effort to ignite in us the spark that makes the fire burn energy love, always on 24 hours on 24, which gives meaning to life.
should be considered fortunate who, at some point in his life, he was involved in the problem-Love Being, perhaps because of responses that explain the complexities of existence with the effect of reviving the living present, to heat the strength of enthusiasm every expression of life is love in action.
It seems right to resume the topic covered in the previous active love, which have been described in some psychological characteristics of women that may affect the romantic relationships, and only briefly mention a few men. Now is the time to describe more fully the psychological differences between men and women that reflect badly, air conditioners, in relations not only romantic relationships but in general, reporting as a citation, some pages 97-100 of my book "Love and Sexuality aware " ed. The Age of Aquarius.
"It is a cliché the statement:" The man is different from the woman, "because there are real differences, not only physically, of course, but especially from the standpoint of physical and mental. In fact, there are real differences, some due to family education, the cultural influences of society and the historical times in which we live are the most obvious feature roles, qualities and attitudes, ways of assessing priorities, the essential things for their own physical and spiritual, and now show a careful look at interpersonal relationships.
Man gives importance at the forefront in power, knowledge in every field, skill and efficiency in the attempt to achieve certain results. Consciously or unconsciously put to the test in all areas, sexual and family, work and relationships, to show himself to "be", that they have a sense of self in relation to the capacity to reach a goal and success. Therefore, the interest of practical things (except many exceptions), outdoor activities and sports to engage in or watch as a viewer of television programs or as a traveler in Internet search technology with the latest news: fast cars, super-fast computers and all the objects that facilitate the achievement of its goals. When
follows, particularly with efforts and sacrifices, the expected results, is comfortable with himself and expresses pride, feels autonomous and efficient, competent and qualified to handle the power.
This aspect plays an important role in the relationship with the woman because, in case you are called into question his ability, and intelligence, he falls into crisis, no longer feels useful to her to solve problems, feel rejected in what it can give with confidence, considered to be unnecessary.
But he does not understand that the only effective aid that can give her, and listened with sympathy and interest, because the woman does not need much of solution to be "heard."
This substantial difference in psicomentale is one of many contributing factors in a marriage crisis, because when there is no shared understanding, mutual interest and willingness to understand and to listen, falls on the emotional and sexual desire, especially if relationships last a long time.
She however, considers the values \u200b\u200bof primary importance, Love, feelings and emotions inspired by the beauty, the friendly relations that challenge us to communicate their problems and his own feelings. Is accomplished through participation in expressing emotions and feelings in a relationship, even friendship. The reports of all kinds will enable it to share it with others of their mood, feelings and emotions and does so much more than achieve success or reach a goal of power (there are many exceptions). In speaking and communicating an expression of solidarity, protection and love, is like a therapeutic act for her: giving and receiving help.
The woman is very sensitive to the improvement of himself and his spiritual growth (which is why in all activities aimed at improving and deepening the self, prevailing number of women) and willingness to give much attention to the feelings and problems of others.
The woman in these prerogatives is precisely the opposite of man, for him to receive aid is not required, it is an insult, because it highlights the lack of confidence in his abilities, feels incompetent, incapable and weak; nothing more offensive to hear him give unsolicited advice, which sounds like a reproach and a recognition of its inefficiency. The woman psychologically wrong when he tries to help her man to mature, if that does not want, as if to tell him that is not working well.
It 'clear that these differences relate men and women who belong to mediocrity and who follow the way of life and conduct policy, inspired by the canons of normality flatter, obvious and conventional.
The speech is different for those who tend to know each other and improve the awareness of its limitations, then the boundaries between male and female qualities will greatly expand and merge. This explains why we experience more and more women are "masculine, independent, determined and aggressive, especially sexually, full of initiative, free and eager for self-at any cost, on the contrary, there are men," women's "weakest psicomentalmente, always on the defensive , fearful of losing power in sexual relationships with women, but also more responsive to the needs of transformation and improvement, specific to women.
This reality must be considered more and more obvious positive because times require new effort by everyone to raise awareness, understanding and acceptance beyond the gender differences. The human being as a whole spiritual ego is so asexual, when communicating at the level of awareness, and spiritually, there are more differences. While recognizing the value of certain cognitive character of truth, and not just evolutionary, they all agree, men and women arise difficulty only put them into practice, because each person acts according to his experience and his role and his karma come out, then, the sexual differences that affect attitudes and opinions. "
After reading the description of the psychological characteristics of men and women (that anyone can integrate its experience), I hope you understand better the job you can do on themselves because, I repeat, the problem of love with a partner is something very important, that covering the full growth of personality to understand each other understand who we are in relation to the mystery is more challenging that satisfying and rewarding it can reveal.
Thus, "the requirement of being" claimed by everyone, man or woman, willpower and the constant effort to ignite in us the spark that makes the fire burn energy love, always on 24 hours on 24, which gives meaning to life.
should be considered fortunate who, at some point in his life, he was involved in the problem-Love Being, perhaps because of responses that explain the complexities of existence with the effect of reviving the living present, to heat the strength of enthusiasm every expression of life is love in action.
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